This conversation delves into the financial complexities individuals face during and after divorce. Carlton Benjamin, a financial security advisor, and Divorce Coach Lisa share insights on managing emotions, long-term planning, and the importance of life insurance.

The discussion covers various financial aspects, including investment accounts, pensions, and tax implications, emphasizing the need for a structured approach to rebuilding financial stability post-divorce.
We also tackle practical, often-overlooked questions like:
➡️ What to do with joint life insurance after separation
➡️ How to handle RESP contributions when co-parenting
➡️ Tax traps to avoid when dividing RRSPs, selling property, or receiving spousal support

☑️ How to split pensions and retirement accounts without triggering penalties
☑️ What "irrevocable beneficiary" really means—and why it matters
☑️ How to rebuild your financial foundation after divorce

If the money side of divorce is stressing you out, or you’re unsure what you don’t know...

🎧 This episode is for you.
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In this conversation, Divorce Coach, Lisa Gu and Therapist, Josh Rinz, discuss the complexities of navigating children's therapy during divorce. They explore various types of therapy suitable for children, signs of distress to look for, and the misconceptions children may have about divorce.

The importance of communication, providing security, and the impact of parental conflict on children are emphasized. They also address how to encourage children to engage in therapy, the significance of community support, and the need for parents to give themselves grace during this challenging time.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Divorce: Concerns for Children's Well-Being

02:21 Types of Therapy for Children

06:27 Recognizing Signs of Distress in Children

10:18 Understanding Children's Fears During Divorce

14:23 Communicating with Children About Divorce

18:28 Parental Conflict and Its Impact on Children

22:24 Effective Communication Strategies for Parents

26:14 Avoiding Common Pitfalls in Parenting During Divorce

28:39 Navigating Parental Love in Divorce

35:58 Long-Term Perspectives on Parenting

37:01 The Importance of Therapy for Children

48:43 Building a Supportive Community for Kids

53:15 Embracing Imperfection in Parenting

P.S. Follow Josh on Instagram @joshrinztherapy for more wisdom on parenting, mental health, and neurodivergence.

P.P.S. My group coaching program, Chaos to Clarity, covers practical strategies to support your children and stepchildren during divorce. Sign up by April 18 for your first month at 50% off!

In this solo episode, Lisa reflects on the lasting impact of comments made by her ex-husband, particularly regarding her stress levels before traveling. She shares her journey of self-discovery through travel, highlighting how she overcame the negative narrative imposed by her ex. Lisa emphasizes the importance of reclaiming one's personal power and rewriting narratives that no longer serve us, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the stories they carry from past relationships.