Self Development Collective

By: Self Development Collective
  • Summary

  • The Self Development Collective is a personal development podcast where I share my experiences and inner work. I share ideas and strategies to support us in grief, the inner critic, boundaries, people-pleasing, and relationships. Shop our self development & self help worksheets here // https://selfdevelopmentcollective.com/shop
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Episodes
  • Trying To Change Vs. Trying To Grow: Personal Growth 2025
    Dec 24 2024
    Trying To Change Vs. Trying To Grow: Personal Growth 2025 Episode Description: A Journey of Personal Growth

    🎧 Hey guys! I'm so excited to share this transformative episode with you. After having my baby (he's two months old now!), I've been doing a lot of reflection on how we approach growth and development, and I want to share something that's completely shifted my perspective.

    The Power of Personal Growth Over Change

    You know how at the end of every year, we talk about all the things we want to change about ourselves? Through my deep dive into psychotherapy and personal growth work, I've discovered something game-changing about how we approach our inner journey. What if instead of forcing change, we embraced understanding through curiosity?

    Key Insights for Transformation

    In this episode about authentic development, I share openly about: * Why fighting against parts of ourselves blocks genuine growth and leads to disconnection * How my relationship with anger transformed into a powerful catalyst for understanding * The breakthrough moment in my journey when I stopped trying to change and started getting curious * Why understanding our emotions is crucial for sustainable transformation * Practical strategies for embracing all parts of ourselves in our development journey

    Real Talk About Personal Growth

    I get really honest about my experiences - like being labeled "the angry one" and how that impacted my path to understanding myself. Through exploring Internal Family Systems (IFS) and psychotherapy (I'm obsessed with Martha Sweezy's work!), I've discovered that real personal growth happens when we get curious about what our emotions are trying to tell us.

    A Fresh Perspective on Personal Growth

    This episode is perfect if you're feeling stuck in your journey or tired of traditional self-help advice. I share raw, authentic experiences about how shifting from "how can I change?" to "how can I grow?" has transformed my approach to development and understanding.

    Embracing Your Whole Self

    And as I always say - take what resonates, leave what doesn't. But I'm really curious to see how this new perspective might transform the way you work with all parts of yourself. Join me in this honest conversation about growth, where we explore how understanding ourselves, rather than trying to change ourselves, might be the key to authentic transformation.

    Stay Connected

    Follow along with my content: * New episodes every two weeks * Deep dives into psychological concepts made accessible * Real-life applications for your journey of growth

    Links Mentioned

    The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner https://www.amazon.com.au/Dance-Anger-Changing-Patterns-Relationships/dp/0062319043

    Internal Family Systems Therapy for Shame and Guilt by Martha Sweezy https://amzn.asia/d/5qmcKlh

    #PersonalGrowth #AuthenticGrowth #SelfDevelopment #IFSTherapy #EmotionalGrowth #SelfDiscovery #MentalHealth #PersonalTransformation #GrowthMindset #EmotionalIntelligence

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    17 mins
  • Conflict Resolution in Relationships: How To Repair After Anger
    Dec 22 2024
    Conflict Resolution in Relationships: How To Repair After Anger

    Hey everyone. In this episode of the Self Development Collective, I want to share something really personal about conflict resolution in relationships - and honestly, I'm diving into this topic because it's something I struggle with myself. I'll tell you about a recent situation that happened with my mom, my eight-week-old baby, and a Christmas tree that taught me so much about handling family conflicts.

    What You'll Learn:
    • A practical four-step framework for resolving relationship conflicts after intense emotional moments
    • Why taking space after conflict can lead to deeper connection and understanding
    • How to communicate your feelings authentically without causing more damage
    • The importance of honoring your emotional experience while repairing relationships
    Key Topics Covered:
    • My personal story of navigating a sensitive family situation as a new mom
    • How losing my brother changed my perspective on family conflicts and connection
    • Real-life application of the conflict resolution framework
    • The transformative power of vulnerability in relationship repair

    I break down the framework that's really helped me repair relationships after those heated moments. Through my own story of moving from intense anger to a beautiful reconnection with my mom, I show how this framework works in real life. I'm completely open about my struggles - like feeling punished for taking rest as a new mom, and the complicated emotions that come with missing special moments with my kids.

    This episode is perfect for anyone feeling stuck after a conflict, wondering how to make things right. Whether you're dealing with family tensions, partner disagreements, or friendship conflicts, I share practical tools that have transformed my own relationships and can help you find your way back to connection, even after those really tough moments.

    Remember: repair is always possible, and sometimes those post-conflict conversations can lead to even deeper understanding and stronger bonds.

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    11 mins
  • Changing Your Life (And Why It Can Be A Struggle)
    Dec 11 2024

    🎧 Hi there! I'm so excited to share this episode with you where I dive into why changing your life through personal development can feel so impossible sometimes. After taking almost a year off to have my baby and study, I've been thinking deeply about why some self development ideas around changing your life often leave us feeling more stuck than before.

    In this episode, I share my own journey with changing my life - from standing in a parking lot trying desperately to "think positive" at 20 years old, to discovering why these strategies weren't helping me grow. I talk about:

    • Why replacing challenging thoughts with gratitude lists isn't always the path to changing your life
    • How our "negative" parts often serve important protective functions
    • What happened when I started reading psychotherapy books to help myself change
    • Why understanding ourselves is more powerful than trying to force change
    • How I'm bridging complex psychological concepts into simple, actionable strategies through The Self Development Collective to support inner growth

    This episode is perfect if you've ever felt frustrated with advice that tells you to "just think positive" or "eliminate your inner critic" when changing your life.

    I'm releasing new episodes every two weeks, bringing you accessible strategies based on powerful psychological concepts. Because I believe changing your life starts with truly understanding ourselves.

    #ChangingYourLife #PersonalDevelopment #LifeTransformation #SelfGrowth #PracticalPsychology #MentalHealth #SelfUnderstanding #PersonalGrowth

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    12 mins

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