”It’s easy to forget the details… especially once the baby arrives. In this episode, Lindsey and Aaron take a walk down memory lane to relive the wild, wonderful, and sometimes overwhelming journey of pregnancy—from both the mom and dad perspective.Recorded as a message to their children for when they one day become parents, this episode unpacks the truth behind the glow. From pregnancy brain to mood swings, food cravings to name debates, shifting mindsets, and the delicate dance of advocating for your partner (and yourself), the hosts open up in raw, relatable ways.This isn't just a nostalgic retelling—it's a guide for the future and a reminder that the road to parenthood is full of moments worth remembering.

Poll Question:What was the most surprising part of pregnancy for you or someone close to you?

The emotional rollercoaster

The physical symptoms

The partner’s experience

The shift in priorities

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Summer is coming… but before we talk about swimsuits and sunscreen, let’s talk about self-love. In this episode, Lindsey and Aaron get real about what it means to have body positivity—inside and out. From mental health to gut health, hair to teeth, they dive into the full picture of feeling good in your own skin.But it doesn’t stop there—things get spicy when the conversation turns to relationships. Is it ever okay to put a weight limit or health requirement on your partner? Is that support or sabotage? The hosts share honest thoughts, personal experiences, and ask the questions we’re often afraid to bring up out loud.This episode is for anyone who’s ever looked in the mirror and struggled—or smiled. Let’s make this summer the season of confidence, compassion, and feeling good from the inside out.Poll Question:Would you be okay with your partner giving you a fitness or health goal?

Yes, if it’s out of love

Maybe, depends how it’s said

No, my body my business

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In this special episode, we welcome a very important member of our family—our dog, Christmas! 🐾 From the moment he entered our lives during a dark and uncertain time, Christmas brought light, love, and unexpected healing. Today, we reflect on what it means to be pet owners, how dogs truly become part of the family, and why Christmas was a divine gift just for us.Lindsey and Aaron share how raising a dog prepared them for parenthood, the importance of training, and how the timing of getting a pet can shape a relationship and a household. Whether you're a pet lover or considering adding a furry friend to your home, this episode will pull at your heartstrings and maybe even inspire a trip to the shelter.

Poll Question:Do you believe pets prepare you for parenting?Yes, 100%

Kind of, but not the same

Nope, totally differentLike

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”In this week’s episode of First Comes Love Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron open up about one of their most personal and ongoing challenges—building a supportive village while living far away from their home base. As partners, parents, and individuals, they reflect on how community is essential not just for raising kids, but for sustaining a healthy relationship.This letter to their future children is a reminder: your support system matters, and building one intentionally is a life skill worth learning. The hosts get honest about their wins and misses in creating that village, and share the kind of family and community they hope their kids will be better at building for themselves.Poll Question:When it comes to dating, which birth order position makes the best partner?OldestMiddleYoungestOnly ChildMake sure to like, subscribe, comment, and follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm to join the conversation and share your answer

On this week’s episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron are getting real about MISTAKES. What’s the difference between a genuine accident and a true mistake? And once it happens—then what?

The couple opens up about the times they’ve stumbled, how they made things right (or at least tried to), and how they handle the lingering feelings of regret. It's an honest and heartfelt look at taking accountability, growing from your missteps, and learning to forgive yourself and your partner.

And yes—we’re even asking: was it just a mistake… or was he being a jerk?

This episode is about owning your truth, learning, and moving forward with love. Don’t miss it!

This week’s poll:
Can you come back from a big mistake in a relationship?

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It’s a celebration! This week on First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, we’re showering our amazing host Lindsey with birthday love. In true podcast fashion, we turn this personal moment into a meaningful conversation about gratitude, appreciation, and the joy of celebrating life’s big and small wins.

Aaron and Lindsey dive into what makes a good gift—is it the thought that counts, or does the price tag matter? They also reflect on the milestones of the past year and the power of pausing to appreciate how far you’ve come.

Whether you’re in celebration mode or need a reminder to give yourself some flowers, this episode is for you!

This week’s poll:
Do you prefer a thoughtful gift or an expensive gift?

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With Mother’s Day just around the corner, it's only right we pass the mic to our podcast’s very own super mom—Lindsey! In this honest, warm, and funny episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey opens up about what it really takes to juggle motherhood, marriage, work, and still make time for herself.

Aaron dives in with the tough and tender questions: How does she keep everything running smoothly? Does she ever feel like she’s losing herself in the title of “Mom”? And yes—we even go there—should parents admit to having a favorite child?

Whether you’re a mom, love a mom, or just want to hear the real deal about parenting, this episode is a must-listen.

Poll Question: What do you want for Mother’s Day?
Spa Day?
Breakfast in Bed?
Nails Done?
Flowers?

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What does success really look like—and are we living up to it? In this reflective and heartfelt episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron sit down to ask each other: Do we feel successful? Do our parents think we’re successful? And more importantly—are they proud of us?This week’s conversation dives into what it means to be a successful spouse, parent, and individual. The hosts share honest thoughts on how they define success today, how that’s changed over the years, and the pressure many of us feel to “make our parents proud.”They also explore the expectations passed down through generations and the unique balance between building a life for yourself and still wanting that nod of approval from the ones who raised you.Poll Question: What’s more important—mental success or financial success?Like, subscribe, and join the convo in the comments. Follow @firstcomeslovetcm on Instagram for more behind-the-scenes insights from Lindsey and Aaron.