In this special episode, we welcome a very important member of our family—our dog, Christmas! 🐾 From the moment he entered our lives during a dark and uncertain time, Christmas brought light, love, and unexpected healing. Today, we reflect on what it means to be pet owners, how dogs truly become part of the family, and why Christmas was a divine gift just for us.Lindsey and Aaron share how raising a dog prepared them for parenthood, the importance of training, and how the timing of getting a pet can shape a relationship and a household. Whether you're a pet lover or considering adding a furry friend to your home, this episode will pull at your heartstrings and maybe even inspire a trip to the shelter.

Poll Question:Do you believe pets prepare you for parenting?Yes, 100%

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”In this week’s episode of First Comes Love Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron open up about one of their most personal and ongoing challenges—building a supportive village while living far away from their home base. As partners, parents, and individuals, they reflect on how community is essential not just for raising kids, but for sustaining a healthy relationship.This letter to their future children is a reminder: your support system matters, and building one intentionally is a life skill worth learning. The hosts get honest about their wins and misses in creating that village, and share the kind of family and community they hope their kids will be better at building for themselves.Poll Question:When it comes to dating, which birth order position makes the best partner?OldestMiddleYoungestOnly ChildMake sure to like, subscribe, comment, and follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm to join the conversation and share your answer

On this week’s episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron are getting real about MISTAKES. What’s the difference between a genuine accident and a true mistake? And once it happens—then what?

The couple opens up about the times they’ve stumbled, how they made things right (or at least tried to), and how they handle the lingering feelings of regret. It's an honest and heartfelt look at taking accountability, growing from your missteps, and learning to forgive yourself and your partner.

And yes—we’re even asking: was it just a mistake… or was he being a jerk?

This episode is about owning your truth, learning, and moving forward with love. Don’t miss it!

This week’s poll:
Can you come back from a big mistake in a relationship?

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