Today on #teakink Podcast, meet Conor - Shibari Artist, Rope Studio Owner, ex-Publisher and a multi-facted mind whom Eva Oh always adores to sit with. Listen in to their conversation which spans Conor's entering into kink, masculinity and fibromyalgia, kink as therapy, Antwerp, women clients, the link between kink and gambling - and so so much more.

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HIGHLIGHTS:
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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - Meet Conor Aphilia, A Multi-faceted Mind That I Adore
(01:30) - How We Met, Paraphilia Magazine
(03:10) - Conor's Entering into Kink - Tinder, Parties and Ireland
(05:10) - Rope - Lockdown, Masculinity and Fibromyalgia
(08:30) - Kink as Therapy or Denying the Fun?
(12:40) - Moving into Sex Work and Discovering Others and Ourselves
(19:30) - Women Clients
(22:50) - The Post-War Porn Reality of Shibari
(26:30) - How Shibari has Changed Conor's Daily Life
(29:45) - What Motivates Sex Work
(35:40) - Antwerp, The Kinkiest Place in the World?
(38:00) - The Highs and Woes of Publishing a Kink Magazine
(42:50) - International Rope Learning Retreats
(44:40) - What is Kink to Us - Power, Fetishism and Questioning the Norm
(46:15) - Meeting Dossie Easton - The Link Between Kink and Gambling
(47:30) - Dom Drop and Aftercare
(52:00) - Men vs Women Clients and Intention Setting
(54:45) - How to find Conor and the Aphilia Studio

Eva Oh has been getting invited to more and more crazy rich sex parties to manage BDSM dungeons and entertain guests with kinky installations. Enter the clandestine operations of sex parties for the uber wealthy - where multiple day productions cost millions, where guests and staff are flown in all expenses paid from across the world, and where Eva often sits in between the gratitude of a gig and the spectacle, shock and concerns of extreme wealth.

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HIGHLIGHTS:

Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:23) - Crazy Rich Sex Parties and NDAs

(02:30) - Where and How?

(03:30) - Who Runs and Attends Them?

(04:20) - Staffing, Recruitment and Production Companies

(08:14) - What Do I Do at Them, BDSM Show and Tell

(09:40) - Consent Concerns

(13:30) - The Overwhelm of Extreme Wealth

(15:55) - Crew Bonding, Catering and Naps

(17:50) - Theatre, Campness and Value

(19:15) - A Story, The Labyrinth of a Guest Experience

The Current Keeper of the Museum of Sex Objects, Deborah Sims, joins Eva Oh for a fascinating discussion on women and freedom on the #teakink Podcast. We discover more about the origins of the Museum, WeWork Dominatrix Dungeons, Coven Garden Industrial Spanking, and the museum's objects - including a whip made from Meretrix hair of Roman times. Deborah and Eva chat rage, 'Poor Things', historical patterns of sexual and female liberation and the importance of remembering our history - including cases of forced female circumcision in Notting Hill not that long ago. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Meet Deborah Sims, the Keeper of the Museum of Sex Objects (02:15) - The Objects, from Roman times to Today (05:50) - Why the Museum Came About, Untold Stories and Straightjacketed Women (11:10) - The Intersection of Freedom, Desire and Cat Ladies (15:30) - Rage and Forced Female Circumcision in Notting Hill (20:35) - 'Poor Things', Female 'Hysteria' and Roe vs Wade (21:30) - Historical Patterns of Sexual and Female Liberation? (27:10) - The Importance of Remembering History (30:10) - Matriarchal Sex Cults and 18th Century Industrial Spanking (33:40) - Societal Challenges and Hopes for the Museum (37:40) - Coco de Mer and the Ladies of Covent Garden (40:30) - Sexy Soho Walking Tours and the WeWork Dominatrix Dungeon (43:05) - Manet's 'Olympia' (44:45) - The Unpaid Sexual Labour of Marriage vs(?) Sex Work (48:50) - Rethinking Censorship on Social Media, Awareness and Freedom
(51:40) - Pain is Pleasure

Matthew of Baron Books joins Eva Oh on her play space sofa to indulge us on the pornographic origins of Baron and how the influence of powerful women shaped his views on identity and sexuality. They also chat sex shops, cruising apps, The Death Book, medical fetish, feeders, Versace, Bruce La Bruce and so so much more.
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HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - Meet Matthew of Baron Books
(02:15) - How Baron Books Began
(03:35) - What is P*rn at Baron?
(04:30) - We Won The Baron Prize - with our P*rn, Grief Encounter
(06:30) - Sex, Sexuality and Powerful Women
(09:15) - Femininity and the Lack of Representation of Gay Men
(11:30) - It Started with a Photography Project on Cottaging
(15:00) - The Bruce La Bruce Book Launch in a Sex Shop
(17:15) - The Baron Sex Shop?
(18:55) - My Ongoing Gripe About the Lack of Queer Cruising
(20:15) - The Digital vs the Physicality of Books
(23:25) - Jackie Collins, Versace, the Bitch and Sarah Baker
(26:34) - Baron’s Impact on Matthew’s ‘Dynasty’
(28:15) - My Interest in Rage
(29:04) - Baron and BDSM: Forniphilia with Namio Harukawa and Medical Fetishism with Romaine Slocombe
(34:50) - How Baron Chooses Books
(37:55) - Fat Bodies, Feeders and Control
(40:10) - How Books and Baron are Evolving
(43:50) - The Past, Present and Future of Sex Shops
(46:40) - The Death Book, HIV, and Gay Identity
(49:35) - Sex, Death, Control
(52:25) - Problematic Projects, Publishing and Imprisonment

Eva Oh joins Miss May at her playspace, E1 Darkroom, to talk dating, polyamory, the draw of filth and intensity, the 'ick' of the stereotypical 'dominant' man, the rarity of a good service sub and the deep deep importance of cleaning.
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HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - Meet Miss May at her play space, E1 Darkroom
(01:30) - Why Start a Playspace?
(02:48) - The Draw of Filth and Intensity
(04:40) - The E1 Darkroom Impact
(06:20) - Cleaning, The Central Tenet
(07:50) - The Rarity of a Good Service Subs
(09:10) - Different Client Dynamics and Friend-Zones
(12:20) - Dungeons and Dating
(15:40) - Sadism, Objectification and Oral Sex
(17:15) - Polyamory, Cheating and Evolving Desires
(19:05) - An Excuse to Ask What I Want
(19:40) - Miss May's Ideal Life
(21:00) - Money and Sex Work vs the Investment of Dating
(22:50) - 'Dominant' Men, the Ick and the Stereotype of the Patriarchy
(26:40) - Professional Domination: Germany vs the UK
(34:20) - How to be a Dominatrix - Hygiene! and...
(36:20) - How to Hire E1 Darkroom

Venus is the organiser of Sex and Rage, a martial artist, fetish wrestler and soon to be stunt performer. In this conversation between Venus and Eva Oh we learn about Venus’ progression from stripping into fetish wrestling, the origins of Sex and Rage, Venus’ Lesbian and Bisexual Strip Club, the various personas that she embodies; and the importance of power, presence and play.
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More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - Meet Venus, Event Organiser, Sex Worker and Martial Artist
(00:48) - Sex and Rage, The Lesbian and Bisexual Strip Club
(07:35) - Stripping and Fetish Wrestling
(12:05) - Wrestling and Domination
(13:10) - Lesbian Wrestling
(14:30) - Venus vs The Wrestler Persona, Sativa
(15:50) - Venus’ Self Defence Workshops
(23:30) - Parallels between Martial Arts and Sex Worker Communities
(27:25) - Martial Artists and Sensitivity
(31:30) - Being Present, Fighting and F**king
(33:25) - The Venus Persona
(36:10) - The Future of Venus: Sex and Rage, Fighting, Stunts
(38:20) - How Does it Feel to Get Hit?
(42:25) - Venus’ Personal Perversions
(44:45) - Power and Play

Eva Oh launches her own loose leaf teas! A Jasmine Silver Tip and an Aged Port Oolong. Watch her pour herself a tea ceremony as she takes us through the history of how and why #teakink began. A tale of Domme friends, secrets, censorship and platforming the margins.
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More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - Teas by Eva Oh
(01:40) - Jasmine Silver Tip Loose Leaf Tea
(02:12) - The History of #teakink, Domme Friends and Censorship
(06:50) - Why Tea?
(09:00) - What next?
(10:55) - Aged Port Oolong Loose Leaf Tea
(12:55) - My Naivety, Censorship and Platforming the Margins
(16:15) - Thank you for your response to the Podcast

Watch one of Eva Oh’s mentoring sessions live on the #teakink Podcast. Miss Juni is an aspiring Dominatrix who booked a mentoring call with Eva Oh but ended up on her sofa with her questions instead. From red flags, to client application processes, socialising with clients, and setting rates; Eva and Juni cover a lot of ground. We also get an insight into Juni’s motivations, her use of OnlyFans as a space for trans activism and her thoughts on sissification from a trans perspective.
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More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - A Mentoring Session with Miss Juni, Aspiring Dominatrix
(01:23) - Why Become a Dominatrix?
(02:40) - Domination and Acceptance
(05:19) - Sissification from a Trans Perspective
(08:12) - Qtee Foxx, OnlyFans and Trans Activism
(12:35) - Offensive Clients
(18:00) - Red Flags in Professional Domination
(25:00) - My Client Application Process
(27:00) - Dominating the Every Day
(31:00) - My Awkward Moment Trying Professional Submission
(33:30) - How Do You Keep a Client Conversation Going?
(35:00) - Bowling, Karaoke, and My Humiliation
(38:00) - How Do You Create Long Term Clients?
(42:00) - Sugar Babying, the Saviour Complex and Quitting the Industry
(47:00) - Consent is Cool
(48:50) - How Do You Ask for More? How Do We Handle Our Sense of Value?
(01:00:50) - Work-Life Balance as a Dominatrix
(01:04:00) - The Eva Oh Experience
(01:06:50) - How Much Do You Give Before a Session?