Understand Emotions: The Foundation of Emotional Intelligence

🎧 Episode Description

Did you know we experience up to 500 emotional moments every day?
Most go unnoticed. Some linger. A few shape our thoughts, choices, and relationships.

But how many of those do we really understand?

In this episode of The Power of Emotional Intelligence, we slow down. Not with theory, but with clarity.

We explore what's underneath the surface of our emotions—where that knot in the stomach, the rush in the chest, or the tension behind the eyes comes from.

And more importantly, how to work with it instead of against it.

💡 You’ll learn:
✔️ What emotional intelligence (EQ) really is—and how it's different from IQ

✔️ The science behind emotions: from Darwin to Paul Ekman to today

✔️ The difference between primary emotions and secondary reactions (a game-changer)

✔️ Gross’s model of emotion regulation—and why it works

✔️ Concrete tools like “opposite action,” fact-checking, mindfulness, and physical self-care (PLEASE skills)

✔️ How understanding emotions helps with leadership, decision-making, and everyday calm

Whether you’re a leader, a coach, or someone who wants to better navigate life’s emotional ups and downs—this episode gives you tools you can use today.

✨ Key Takeaways:

✅ Emotions are messages, not problems to suppress

✅ EQ is learnable, not fixed

✅ Understanding emotions begins with noticing, naming, and navigating

✅ Differentiating between primary and secondary emotions helps you respond with intention

✅ Emotional skills lead to better relationships, choices, and workplace success

🔎 Chapter Highlights:

📌 What Is Emotional Intelligence (EQ)?→ Why EQ matters as much as IQ, especially in high-stress environments

📌 Emotions Through History→ From Darwin’s universal expressions to Ekman’s basic emotions and display rules

📌 Primary vs. Secondary Emotions→ Why reacting to a reaction keeps us stuck—and how to go deeper

📌 Gross’s Emotion Regulation Model→ The five levers you can adjust to change how you experience and express emotion

📌 Mindfulness & Embodied Awareness→ How to use your body as a compass to understand and regulate what you feel

📌 Practical EQ Skills→ Opposite Action, Problem Solving, Cope Ahead, PLEASE skills & more

📌 EQ in the Workplace→ Real-world research on EQ’s link to leadership, teamwork, and performance

📚 Further Reading:
📖 Emotional Intelligence – Daniel Goleman
📖 The Emotional Life of Your Brain – Richard Davidson & Sharon Begley

🎙️ Hosted by Marc Monteil, founder of Intemotionnelle.com and Be2Can.com

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Empathetic Leadership: The Key to Connecting, Inspiring, and Unlocking Your Team’s Potential.

🎧 Episode Description:

Does your team feel disconnected? Are you struggling to inspire and engage them?

In today’s fast-paced world, leadership isn’t just about results—it’s about people. The best leaders don’t just manage; they connect, listen, and inspire.

Empathetic leadership is not about being “nice.” It’s about understanding emotions, fostering trust, and creating an environment where teams thrive. When leaders embrace empathy, they unlock higher engagement, productivity, and innovation—whether in the office or in a remote setting.

🔥 In this episode of The Power of Emotional Intelligence, you’ll discover:
✔️ The real meaning of empathetic leadership—and why most leaders get it wrong
✔️ The hidden ROI of emotional connection in leadership (spoiler: it boosts performance!)
✔️ Common empathy myths & why “soft skills” are actually power skills
✔️ How to break through barriers like ego, burnout, and corporate culture
✔️ Practical techniques to build trust, enhance communication, and lead with empathy—starting today

✨ Key Takeaways:
✅ Connect – Build stronger, more meaningful relationships with your team
✅ Inspire – Motivate and engage your people to reach their full potential
✅ Thrive – Create a culture of trust, resilience, and outstanding performance

🔎 Chapter Breakdown:
📌 The Empathetic Leader: What It Really Means
→ The difference between empathy & sympathy (and why it matters)
→ The truth about the “Hero CEO” and leadership myths
→ Why emotional intelligence is a competitive advantage

📌 Actionable Empathy: Connecting & Inspiring
→ How to ask powerful questions that deepen trust
→ Mastering non-verbal cues and emotional awareness
→ Quick wins for leading under pressure

📌 Empathy in Action: From Theory to Transformation
→ How to build a culture of empathy in a hybrid/remote world
→ Leading through uncertainty and crisis with emotional intelligence
→ The future of leadership—and why empathy will define success.

📚 Recommended Reads for Leaders Who Want to Level Up:
📖 Dare to Lead – Brené Brown
📖 Emotional Intelligence 2.0 – Travis Bradberry & Jean Greaves

🎙️ Hosted by Marc Monteil, founder of Intemotionnelle.com.

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Mastering Social Skills: The Key to Leadership & Connection

Ever wonder why some people naturally build strong relationships while others struggle with communication?

Social skills are at the core of emotional intelligence, shaping the way we lead, collaborate, and resolve conflicts.

But how can we develop and refine these skills to thrive both professionally and personally?

Welcome back toThe Power of Emotional Intelligence!

In this seventh episode, we discuss the essential role of social skills in emotional intelligence.

From active listening to conflict resolution, we explore how mastering interpersonal dynamics can elevate leadership, strengthen relationships, and foster meaningful connections.

Whether you're leading a team, navigating workplace challenges, or simply aiming to communicate more effectively, this episode provides actionable insights to sharpen your social intelligence. 🌟

Hosted by Marc Monteil, founder of Intemotionnelle.com, this episode blends compelling stories, expert strategies, and practical exercises to help you build the skills that matter most in today’s world.

✅You will learn in this episode to:

• • Elevate Your leadership Skills

  • Navigate Conflicts With Empathy

  • Enhance Your Teamwork

  • Building Stronger Relationships

  • Manage Changes.

  • Become a better person.

CHAPTERS:

• • Introduction to Emotional Intelligence

  • Leadership Effectiveness & Communication Styles

  • The Authoritative VS. The Coercive Leader

  • Miscommunication Challenges

  • Power of Active Listening

  • Conflict Resolution & Empathy

  • Emotional Contagion

  • Change management

  • Reality Testing as Key

  • The Five Step Process

  • Negative Bias

✨Key Takeaways:

• Social skills are the foundation of leadership, collaboration, and personal connections.
• Active listening and empathy transform communication and problem-solving.
• Managing emotions effectively helps create a positive and productive environment.
• Mastering conflict resolution fosters trust and stronger relationships.

📚Reading recommendations:

• “Emotional Intelligence 2.0” by Travis Bradberry & Jean Greaves
• “Dare to Lead” by Brené Brown
• “The Charisma Myth” by Olivia Fox Cabane

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