• The Getting Real With Hilary Show, December 24, 2024
    Dec 24 2024
    Title: S2EP58, Finding The Way To Forgive, Debut Novel, Something Better with Diane Parrish What a delightful conversation with fellow Westporter, Diane Parrish who launched her first book this week. Her novel, Something Better, is a book you can't put down. I read it a few months ago and I am still thinking about it. And that says something because I usually can't even remember what books I have just read. We talk about how Diane went about conceiving and nurturing her book. Anyone wanting to write/publish a book will find inspiration and motivation to hear about Diane's process. I got to talk about my process and forgive myself for what happened. Forgiveness is the theme of Diane's book so it was perfect. Something Better will leave you thinking, wondering, and perhaps even healing your own life's disappointments and grudges. Grab a copy wherever books are sold. Thank you again, Diane, for your wonderful prose and this fabulous gift to the world. Website: dianeparrish.com instagram.com/dianeparrishauthor #hilaryburns #DianeParrish #gettingrealwithhilary #realtalk #getreal #getfree #inspiration #thegettingrealwithhilaryshow #somethingbetter #forgiveness #debutnovel #love #affairs #marriage #death #tragedy #church #novel #redemption
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    56 mins
  • The Getting Real With Hilary Show, December 17, 2024
    Dec 17 2024
    Title: S2EP53, Finding the Strength to Power Through and Live Fully in This Life She Didn't Choose with Becky Galli I can not stop crying. I am so moved by my conversation with Becky Galli. "Some would say life has not been kind to me," she says in the introduction of her second book, "morning fuel." At age 20, I lost my seventeen year old brother. Two of my four children had special needs. One of my two sons died at age fifteen. And at 38, nine days after my divorce was finalized, I was paralyzed by transverse myelitis, a rare inflammation of the spinal cord that affects one in a million.” How does Becky go on? I wonder about that myself. But after reading her first book, "rethinking possible," I can see where she gets her strength. Her family, her upbringing, her friends, her spirituality, her faith, her journalling and her therapy. Becky will inspire all of us to live life to the fullest, no matter what circumstances we have. Becky has so many life lessons that she shares with all of us through her column, "From Where I Sit," her books, her Thoughtful Thursdays, and our conversation. Becky wants us all to "Let Our Love Be Larger." You can find Becky's resources at BeckyGalli.com Subscribe and be a part of her email list and let's all live life more fully. Her handle is @chairwriter Note to listeners: For some reason there was an echo when I talked in the second half. I don’t know why. But it’s there. My apologies ahead of time. #wheelchair #BeckyGalli #chairwriter #paraplegic #transversemyelitis #specialneeds #deathofabrother #deathofachild #pastor #writer #author #acceptance #hardlife #resources #support #inspiration #miscarriage #pastorchildren #rethinkingpossible #morningfuel #thegettingrealwithhilaryshow #paralysis #morninginspiration
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    54 mins
  • The Getting Real With Hilary Show, December 10, 2024
    Dec 10 2024
    Title: S2EP52, The Wisdom of the Willows by Nancy Chadwick Nancy Chadwick always wanted to write mini-stories about characters. She went into advertising, but never was able to achieve her goal. She got a job in banking which also did not fulfill her dream. After getting married, her husband told her to take the summer off from her unsatisfying job. She started writing and never went back to work. She started with essays and after 15 years, published her first memoir, Underneath the Birch Tree. Inspired by the sun streaming down on a river one day, Nancy ventured into fiction writing. She wrote some essays and has recently published The Wisdom of the Willow. I thoroughly enjoyed reading about the Dowlings, their daughters, and the wisdom shared by Margaret under the willow tree. Thank you, Nancy, for your appreciation of nature and for passing on your life lessons so we can all relate and learn from you. Bio: Nancy Chadwick grew up in a northern suburb of Chicago. She got her first job at Leo Burnett advertising agency in Chicago. Noted as one of 2024's Most Anticipated Books by the Chicago Review of Books, the forthcoming debut novel The Wisdom of the Willow (She Writes Press, May 7, 2024) is a metaphorically rich and reflective tale of sisterhood and strength—a story of hope and healing, of the choices that shape our lives, and the challenges we all face as we seek to find our places in the world. Please consider a book review, author interview or round-up: as the story takes place from Memorial Day to Labor Day, in the summer of 1998, it’s a perfect Summer Read suggestion. Print ARCs are available, or request a digital ARC on NetGalley. In their early forties, the four Dowling sisters, Debra, Rose, Linney and Charlotte, find themselves faced with big changes in work and relationships that will define their lives. Meanwhile, their terminally ill mother, Margaret, is struggling with whether she has done enough to help her daughters find their way in life, and calls them all to the family home to reunite one last time under the willow tree that she and her husband planted as a symbol of home, belonging, and growth when they began their family in the north suburbs of Chicago. Website: nancychadwickauthor.com Facebook: facebook.com/nancychadwickauthor Instagram: instagram.com/nancychadwickauthor Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/nancy-chadwick-burke-32814867 prbythebook.com/experts/nancy-chadwick/ #NancyChadwick #hilaryburns #gettingrealwithhilary #realtalk #getreal #getfree #inspiration #wisdomofthewillow #author #fictionwriter #chicagoreviewofbooks #writer #familystories #sisters
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    57 mins
  • The Getting Real With Hilary Show, December 3, 2024
    Dec 3 2024
    Title: S2EP51, There's No Stigma In Wanting To Feel Better with Kristin Bruce Kristin Bruce works with kids. She helps them be happy. She works with them to get to the other side of their unhappiness, anxiety and depression without drugs. She wrote a book, "Starting From Scratch: A Guide to Feeling Good!" which outlines her program. Kristin grew up in an alcoholic and drug-using home. She was ashamed and didn't know why she didn't feel happy. After years of therapy, working with children, learning about emotions, loving herself, boundaries, self-esteem and speaking up, she put together a program to help other children. "I want everyone to know their own importance and sacredness. Once they do, they will be able to see that in others. This way we will create a peaceful and sacred planet." Thank you, Kristin, for your courage, wisdom and passion. You are a gift to this planet. Bio: With a storied 25 year career in the public education system and a masters in school counseling, Kristin Bruce has not only observed but has delved deeply into the emotional and behavioral struggles that envelop many children and teens. Identifying a crucial need to uplift and support these young minds, Kristin initiated “How To Be Happy”, a project sparked by the tangible desire to create meaningful change. Kristin relates to teens and their issues because she has navigated many of them herself. “Starting from Scratch”, her insightful book and its expansive collection including a workbook, lesson plans, and an audio CD, become pivotal tools in this noble endeavor, intertwining crucial life skills lessons with strategies derived from communication, boundary-setting, understanding feelings, addressing cognitive distortions, and finding internal peace through guided imageries and meditation. Her unwavering goal: to guide teens and pre-teens away from the shadows of anxiety and depression, steering them back onto a path where they rediscover their happiness and embrace a serene, fulfilling future. With her vast experience, practical strategies, and a deeply rooted passion for youth mental health, Kristin Bruce remains a stalwart ally in championing the well-being of the younger generation. Website: Howtobehappy.kids #thegettingrealwithhilaryshow #KristinBruce #howtobehappy.kids #shame #self-esteem #drugs #alcoholism #drinking #loneliness #familysecrets #fittingin #feelinggood #kristinbruce #startingfromscratch #anxiety #feelingalone #beinghappy #helpingkids
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    56 mins
  • The Getting Real With Hilary Show, November 26, 2024
    Nov 26 2024
    S2EP44, Dream Big, Work Hard and Never Quit with Nazi Refugee and Successful Marketing Executive Barbara Sommer Feigin I read Barbara's book, “My American Dream” twice. I couldn't get her parents’ harrowing escape from Nazi Germany out of my mind. What her father did to make it happen is truly heroic. At a time when it was nearly impossible to leave the country, he kept finding one alternate route after another. Barbara, as a 3 year old, traveled from Germany to Lithuania to Russia to China to Korea to Japan to Canada and then to the US. Not knowing how they were going to do it, her parents started a whole new life in America. Barbara wanted to fit in with the other kids and be an American, so never asked about their journey. When her sister found their father’s journal, they were fascinated. "My American Dream," by Barbara Sommer Feigin tells her parents story and her own. She hopes you will get the importance of freedom, the power of education, how her strong family bonds kept her going in difficult times, and her mother's motto - Dream Big, Work Hard, and Never Quit. Barbara and her family are true American heroes. Thank you, Barbara for your courage, being willing to have your voice heard, and your inspiration. Barbara's book can be found at barbarafeigin.com Bio: Barbara Feigin, author My American Dream. From Nazi Germany refugee to breaking glass ceilings in the Madmen era of advertising, to becoming Exec. VP of Grey Advertising (now Grey Global),Feigin was often the only woman in the (board)room. Her success is legendary with ad campaigns under her belt like, "Easy, Breezy CoverGirl," "Friend Don't Let Friends Drive Drunk '' (yes, that's Barbara), and expanding the Kool-Aid brand. Raising three sons (one of whom is President of the Milwaukee Bucks), caring for her husband who suffered two strokes, and maintaining a high-power career in advertising, Barbara Feigin is a remarkable person with remarkable stories to share. Website: barbarafeigin.com #BarbaraFeigin #hilaryburns #gettingrealwithhilary #realtalk #getreal #getfree #inspiration #nazigermany #escape #worldwarII #advertisingexec #greyadvertising #MadMen #CoverGirl #marketresearch #branding #strokes #family #strongbonds #GreyGlobal
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    55 mins
  • The Getting Real With Hilary Show, November 19, 2024
    Nov 19 2024
    S2 EP50 | Leveraging Her Experience to Help Women with Kathy Sullivan "Moms Eat First" is the title of Kathy Sullivan's book. Do women EVER put themselves first? Well, maybe after some self-reflection and transformation. If you find yourself eating the leftovers while standing, this book is for you. Kathy uses her own experience, work experience, and research to tell a story which as a woman, you WILL relate to. She has tools and principles to have us ALL have the lives we want to have. Kathy is also a consultant and coach, working with businesses to develop leadership and talent. "What is the real issue?" Kathy asks. Find out by watching our interview. You can find more information about Kathy at talentprinciples.com Her book is available on Amazon. Bio: Kathy has over 25 years of experience in leading human resource teams, business operations, and organization-wide change initiatives. She has experience in various types of organizations, such as healthcare, high-tech, and professional services, within small and mid-sized companies. She drives change by developing people and implementing processes and systems to drive organizational performance. Kathy works with small business owners, leadership teams, and individual clients, helping them to establish a vision, align with purpose, and execute a plan to achieve results. Kathy enjoys spending time with her two kids, writing, and traveling. In her spare time, you can find her running races around Northeast Ohio. She believes in developing the next generation of leaders and supporting the advancement of women. She is on the Board of Directors and current Secretary of WEPAN (Women in Engineering ProActive Network) and also serves on the Board of Trustees with Hudson Job Search. #KathySullivan #hilaryburns #gettingrealwithhilary #realtalk #getreal #getfree #inspiration
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    56 mins
  • The Getting Real With Hilary Show, November 12, 2024
    Nov 12 2024
    S2EP49, Fear Is A Collective Mindset, How To Escape It, Thought Snob with Paula Swope What does Thought Snob mean? Well, you'll have to watch my interview with Paula Swope to find out. She wrote the book. She was raised to think she was nothing. She spent up until age 28, feeling like she was nothing, bitter, wanting revenge and full of hate. She was a high school dropout, a binge drinker, had ballooned up to size 16, and had a bunch of boyfriends who treated her like crap. What happened next? Well, when I met Paula, she had her stuff together. She was married, had a college degree, a Master's degree, and a loving husband. How did she go from the person she was at 28 to a 46-year-old with a wonderful life? Tune into our interview and get Paula's book, ThoughtSnob to hear her story. Link to book: https://a.co/d/5esIYs6 Paula can be found at http://www.paulaswope.com Paula Swope describes herself as a nerd disguised in Gucci sunglasses and 4” Jimmy Choos who will choose a scholarly article over something petty any day of the week. But those who follow her teachings consider her to be the most relatable self-help author they have ever known. Before becoming a self-empowerment expert, Paula Swope raised $60M for impoverished populations. When she was fenced in and punching a time clock, she said, “If I can make a living helping people, I’ll have it made.” That’s precisely what she did as a fundraiser and what she’s doing today as an author, social media influencer, podcast host, and life coach. Her life purpose is to help people transform their lives as she has, which inspired her to write her debut book, Thought SNOB: The Modern Spiritual Playbook for a Better Life. In addition to her bachelor’s and master’s degrees, Paula has three certifications from the prestigious Chopra Center. #hilaryburns #gettingrealwithhilary #realtalk #getreal #getfree #inspiration #paulaswope #thoughtsnob #author #fear #wealth #vulnerability #chopracertifiedinstructor #narcissist #Appalachia #mentalhealth #inflammation #bingedrinking #trauma #poverty #waynedyer #revenge #grantwriting #healthyrelationships #forgiveness #thegettingrealwithhilaryshow #prosperity #louisehay #bitterness #love #divorce
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    58 mins
  • The Getting Real With Hilary Show, November 5, 2024
    Nov 5 2024
    Title: S2 EP48 | Perception is Reality - How Is Yours? with David Booth with Deborah Shames From the entertainment business, two directors, a spokesman and an actor now train, coach and are keynote speakers. Their workshops, weekly tips, and books create effective speakers in up to 2 days. Don't believe it? I didn't either until I heard their stories and experienced their work. I delivered a speech during our interview with only 10 seconds of advance warning. And guess what? It was a blast. You'll never believe what I spoke about. Join Deborah and David on the Getting Real with Hilary Show if you ever wanted to communicate more effectively. Or if you know someone who you wish spoke more powerfully. Go to brieflyspeaking.biz to receive discounted pricing, signed copy of their books without paying shipping and handling. Sign up for their weekly speaker tip at: eloqui.biz/blog. It’s free of charge. Deborah and David are skilled directors and corporate spokespersons with years of experience in the entertainment industry, as well as the corporate arena. DEBORAH SHAMES: Prior to founding Eloqui with David Booth, Deborah was an award-winning director of film and TV. She founded the only female-owned production company in the San Francisco Bay Area--Focal Point Productions, which she ran for 15 years. Deborah has directed luminaries including Wendie Malick, Rita Moreno, Danny Glover, and Angela Lansbury. To launch three of her independent films, she formed the video distribution company Deborah Films. Today, Deborah is frequently engaged for national conferences as a keynote speaker or coach, and for leadership development training. Deborah specializes in working with female executives. She preps authors, CEO’s, Olympic athletes, and TV anchors before national media tours, and works with celebrities (e.g. Demi Moore) and on-air talent at major studios. Deborah led a prominent Calabasas business group for 15 years and was honored as “Consultant of the Year” by the San Fernando Valley Business Journal. Deborah’s book “Out Front: How Women Can Become Engaging, Memorable and Fearless Speakers”, published in 2016, resulted in her being awarded the “Author of Influence” by the Women of Influence National Organization. DAVID BOOTH: David has represented global corporations in trade shows throughout the U.S. and Europe. He has served as spokesman and on-camera narrator for hundreds of training videos in banking, technology, energy, and telecommunications. David has also guest-starred on television series including The Practice, Judging Amy, Gilmore Girls and played Drew Barrymore’s father in the film Scream. David designed the Advanced Acting Program at the Pacific Conservatory of the Performing Arts, performed leading roles at the Oregon Shakespeare Festival and in the original ensemble of the Berkeley Repertory Theatre. He was Managing Director of the Tennessee Williams Center in Key West, FL and performed the title role in a Tennessee Williams world premiere. David and Deborah Shames are co-founders of Eloqui, a business communication and presentation training firm based in Santa Fe, New Mexico. They have translated performance techniques from the entertainment industry for business professionals. Eloqui training utilizes the latest research from cognitive sciences and impression management for how to be Memorable. Their latest publication “Briefly Speaking” is a 3-book set that covers everything a speaker needs to know to be successful. These tips represent 22 years of coaching, training and keynote speaking across many industries. Expected launch is fall of 2024. #DavidBooth #DeborahShames #hilaryburns #gettingrealwithhilary #realtalk #getreal #getfree #inspiration #presentations #speaking #coach #beyourself #communication #eloqui #brieflyspeaking #improv #perceptionisreality
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    57 mins