• 255 - REPLAY - Navigating Divorce: Why Every Dad Needs a Coach
    May 12 2025

    Feeling overwhelmed by divorce? You're not alone. The journey through divorce as a dad presents unique challenges that can leave even the most confident men feeling lost and uncertain about the future.

    Divorce coaching has emerged as a crucial resource for fathers navigating this difficult transition. While attorneys focus solely on legal matters, therapists on emotional healing, and financial advisors on money concerns, a divorce coach provides the comprehensive guidance needed to integrate these perspectives into a cohesive strategy tailored to your specific situation.

    In this episode, I outline seven compelling reasons why hiring a divorce coach should be your first step—even before retaining an attorney.

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    39 mins
  • The Hidden Battle: How Feminism Undermines Co-Parenting
    May 5 2025

    Modern feminism has moved far beyond equality. Today, it’s about control — and nowhere is that more obvious than in the aftermath of divorce. In custody courts, in legal systems, and in the culture itself, divorced fathers are being systematically pushed aside, not because they’ve failed their children, but because they don’t fit the feminist-approved narrative of what a post-divorce family should look like.

    If you’re a father going through divorce, or already fighting to stay in your child’s life, you’ve felt this.

    Every move you make is twisted through a lens designed to cast doubt on your motives and minimize your role. The system — backed by decades of feminist legal theory and cultural propaganda — doesn’t see you as a co-equal parent. It sees you as a liability to be managed.

    And the damage doesn’t stop with you.

    Your children are the ones who suffer most — emotionally, psychologically, and developmentally — when ideology is allowed to override truth. They lose not just time with their father, but the stability, identity, and love that only a strong, present dad can give.

    This episode isn’t about playing victim. It’s about waking up, standing up, and fighting smart.

    Because you can protect your children from this.

    But it starts with understanding what you’re up against — and refusing to play by a script that was written to erase you.

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  • 253 - Should You Welcome a Parental Coordinator or Decision Maker (PC/DM)?
    Apr 28 2025

    If you're a divorced or divorcing dad, the idea of a "parental coordinator" (PC) or "decision maker" (DM) might feel like another loss of control. Courts sometimes assign one when parents are high-conflict or consistently stuck on big issues. It's normal to feel suspicious or defensive. But like everything in divorce, there's a mix of positives and negatives you need to know — with real-life examples to make it clear.

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    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

    Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.

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    23 mins
  • 252 - REPLAY: Love Hacks: Building Life-Giving Relationships
    Apr 21 2025

    Jude is joined by the author of Love Hacks: Ten Skills For Making Your Relationships More Life Giving and pastor of Restoration Church in Denver, CO, Ron Johnson. They discuss how divorced dads can have a healthier relationship after divorce by learning what they want in a woman and relationship as well as how to create a deeper attachment the second time around.

    Let’s break it down—what you can control, what you can’t, and what to do about it.

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    How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html

    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

    Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.

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  • 251 - The Art of Losing Control
    Apr 14 2025

    Divorce can feel like your life is spinning out of control—and in many ways, it is. You’re not just splitting up a relationship. You’re restructuring your family, finances, home life, and daily routines. It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos, trying to manage everything, fix everything, and control the uncontrollable. But here’s the truth: mastering the art of losing control is how you survive this. And, paradoxically, it’s how you gain real control where it counts.

    Let’s break it down—what you can control, what you can’t, and what to do about it.

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    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

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  • 250 - How Divorced Dads Can Communicate More Effectively With Their Attorney
    Apr 7 2025

    If you're a divorced dad navigating custody or support issues, your attorney is one of your most important allies. But they’re not a mind reader. To get the best possible results, you need to communicate clearly, efficiently, and with purpose.

    Here’s how to make that happen—and why it matters.

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  • 249 - Dating as a Divorced Dad: Finding the Right Woman
    Mar 31 2025

    Dating after divorce is a different game, especially when you're a father. You have more at stake than just your personal happiness—you need to think about how a new relationship will impact your children, your stability, and your future. The woman you choose to date should not only align with your personal goals but also integrate well into your family. Here’s a breakdown of the types of women that may be beneficial to your situation and those who are better suited for recreational dating rather than marriage.

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    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

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  • 248 - Dear Divorced Dad: You Don't Have To Be Perfect
    Mar 24 2025

    Divorce is tough. There’s no sugarcoating it. It’s a process that shakes the very foundation of your life, leaving you to navigate a storm of emotions, legal complexities, financial strains, and, most importantly, your relationship with your children. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or like you’re failing, you’re not alone. And here’s the truth: you don’t have to be perfect.

    The reality is that you will struggle, and that’s okay. Struggle is not failure—it’s human. In fact, showing your kids that you can weather hard times with resilience will teach them one of the most valuable life lessons they can learn.

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    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

    Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.

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