Episodes

  • 183. What A Girl Wants: Reclaiming Desire + Pleasure

    183. What A Girl Wants: Reclaiming Desire + Pleasure
    Dec 25 2024
    In the latest episode of the WomanIsHer mini-series, Tori Gordon and Avery Valentine engage in a captivating discussion about reclaiming desire and pleasure in the context of their new program. Their mission is to empower women to embrace their raw authenticity and sensuality, ultimately reclaiming their feminine power, pleasure, and voice. Throughout the episode, Tori and Avery emphasize the transformative power of understanding and embracing one's desires. Together, they delve into the societal and self-imposed limitations that hinder women's personal growth, highlighting the significance of acknowledging and pursuing one's true desires. Tori and Avery address topics such as the importance of recognizing personal desires, understanding the connection between pleasure and empowerment, and the role of tantra in cultivating desire and pleasure. By merging psychological and spiritual understanding, Avery presents a vision of personal liberation that transcends societal norms and self-limiting beliefs. This thought-provoking conversation offers listeners a deeper alignment of heart and mind, providing valuable insights on embracing desire and pleasure as a catalyst for a life filled with depth, passion, and unbridled freedom. Sign up for the WomanISHer Program! _________________________________________ Avery Valentine is a dynamic force in the realm of personal liberation, celebrated for her unapologetic passion and boundless energy. As a fearless embodiment coach, facilitator, and educator, she dedicates herself to empowering individuals to break free from societal and self-imposed limitations. Follow Avery on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/avery.maie _________________________________________ 3:30 What Do I Really Want? 9:00 You Deserve What You Desire 11:30 How to Identify if You’re Disconnected from Your Desire When is the last time you did something just because you wanted to? Who taught you that desiring something was wrong? 25:00 The Power of Physical Touch 33:00 Cleaning up the Emotional Debris 42:00 You Deserve to Feel Good, Pleasure if Your Birthright _________________________________________ Our Sponsors: Interested in experiencing EESystem technology for yourself? Go to unifydhealing.com/COACHABLE Discover the power of vibro-acoustic technology with InHarmony at iaminharmony.com and use code COACHABLE _________________________________________ Sign up for the WomanISHer Program! The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ Website: https://www.torigordon.com Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4e62a5zpupdFpkErMiEimz?si=e7fb00845d874ac8 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coachable-podcast/id1475408897 Tori Gordon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetorigordon/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetorigordon?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    53 mins
  • 182. Breaking Free from the “Good Girl” Trap

    182. Breaking Free from the “Good Girl” Trap
    Dec 18 2024
    Defining the “Good Girl” Archetype The "good girl" archetype is a socially constructed identity that pressures women to conform to expectations of perfection, compliance, and selflessness. Rooted in patriarchal systems, this archetype encourages women to: Seek validation from others (especially authority figures or men). Suppress their desires, emotions, and needs to maintain harmony or avoid conflict. Prioritize caregiving and people-pleasing over personal fulfillment. Avoid risks or "unladylike" behavior, opting for safety and predictability over boldness and authenticity. While society celebrates "good girls" for being polite, responsible, and agreeable, these traits often come at the expense of authenticity, empowerment, and joy. How Society Conditions Women Into the "Good Girl" Archetype Cultural Narratives Familial Expectations Religious and Moral Conditioning Workplace Dynamics Media and Social Conditioning Deeper Exploration: The Consequences of the "Good Girl" Trap Loss of Authenticity Emotional Suppression Sexual Shame Fear of Failure and Judgment Overwhelming Guilt _________________________________________ Our Sponsors: Interested in experiencing EESystem technology for yourself? Go to unifydhealing.com/COACHABLE Discover the power of vibro-acoustic technology with InHarmony at iaminharmony.com and use code COACHABLE Sign up for the WomanISHer Program! **The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ Website: https://www.torigordon.com Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon** **Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4e62a5zpupdFpkErMiEimz?si=e7fb00845d874ac8 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coachable-podcast/id1475408897** **Tori Gordon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetorigordon/** **TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetorigordon?lang=en** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    58 mins
  • 181. WOMANISHER MINI-SERIES - Normalizing the Taboo with Avery Valentine

    181. WOMANISHER MINI-SERIES - Normalizing the Taboo with Avery Valentine
    Dec 11 2024
    In the second episode of our new mini-series for WomanIsHer, Tori Gordon and Avery Valentine delve into the world of personal liberation as they discuss their new program. This program aims to support women in reclaiming their feminine power, pleasure, and voice by embracing raw authenticity and sensuality. Throughout the conversation, Tori and Avery provide an exploration of tantric embodiment's transformative power and the importance of integrating one's darkness and light. Together, they examine the societal and self-imposed limitations hindering women's personal growth, emphasizing the significance of embracing their true selves. Tori and Avery address topics such as the spiritual and sacred aspects of sex, the concept of sex as a ceremony, and the role of tantra in personal liberation. They also explore the idea of awakening to the truth and the possibility of achieving energetic orgasms through tantric practices. By merging psychological and spiritual understanding, Avery presents a vision of personal liberation transcending societal norms and self-limiting beliefs. This inspiring conversation offers listeners a deeper alignment of heart and mind, providing valuable insights on embracing feminine power, pleasure, and voice as a catalyst for a life filled with depth, passion, and unbridled freedom. Sign up for the WomanISHer Program! _________________________________ Avery Valentine is a dynamic force in the realm of personal liberation, celebrated for her unapologetic passion and boundless energy. As a fearless embodiment coach, facilitator, and educator, she dedicates herself to empowering individuals to break free from societal and self-imposed limitations. Creating transformative events and immersive experiences, Avery fosters profound connections, awakens sensuality, and fuels personal growth. With a mission to inspire others to embrace their raw, authentic selves, Avery delves into the world of tantric embodiment, helping individuals uncover the intoxicating liberation that arises from integrating their darkness and light. Her work challenges, inspires, and transforms, guiding people towards a life teeming with depth, passion, and unbridled freedom. Follow Avery on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/avery.maie _________________________________ Our Sponsors: Interested in experiencing EESystem technology for yourself? Go to unifydhealing.com/COACHABLE Discover the power of vibro-acoustic technology with InHarmony at iaminharmony.com and use code COACHABLE _________________________________ 0:00 Is Sex Spiritual? 3:00 Sex is Sacred 5:00 What is tantra? 8:15 Awakening to the truth 9:50 Can you make your life the ceremony? 12:55 Energetic Orgasms _________________________________ Sign up for the WomanISHer Program! The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ Website: https://www.torigordon.com Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4e62a5zpupdFpkErMiEimz?si=e7fb00845d874ac8 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coachable-podcast/id1475408897 Tori Gordon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetorigordon/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetorigordon?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    18 mins
  • 180. *NEW WOMANISHER MINI-SERIES* Reclaim Your Feminine Power, Pleasure and Voice with Tori Gordon + Avery Valentine

    180. *NEW WOMANISHER MINI-SERIES* Reclaim Your Feminine Power, Pleasure and Voice with Tori Gordon + Avery Valentine
    Dec 4 2024
    In this empowering episode, Tori Gordon and Avery Valentine introduce their new program, WomanIsHer, which aims to further support women in reclaiming their feminine power, pleasure, and voice. As they dive into the world of personal liberation, they discuss the importance of embracing raw authenticity and sensuality, while offering insights into the transformative power of tantric embodiment and integrating one's darkness and light. Together, Tori and Avery examine the societal and self-imposed limitations that hinder women's personal growth, emphasizing the significance of embracing their true selves. They discuss the practical application of WomanIsHer principles to everyday life, fostering profound connections, awakening passion, and promoting personal growth. By merging psychological and spiritual understanding, Avery presents a vision of personal liberation that transcends societal norms and self-limiting beliefs. This inspiring conversation offers listeners a deeper alignment of heart and mind, providing insights on embracing feminine power, pleasure, and voice as a catalyst for living a life filled with depth, passion, and unbridled freedom. ENROLLMENT for WomanISher: Reclaim Your Feminine Power, Pleasure, and Voice _________________________________ Avery Valentine is a dynamic force in the realm of personal liberation, celebrated for her unapologetic passion and boundless energy. As a fearless embodiment coach, facilitator, and educator, she dedicates herself to empowering individuals to break free from societal and self-imposed limitations. Creating transformative events and immersive experiences, Avery fosters profound connections, awakens sensuality, and fuels personal growth. With a mission to inspire others to embrace their raw, authentic selves, Avery delves into the world of tantric embodiment, helping individuals uncover the intoxicating liberation that arises from integrating their darkness and light. Her work challenges, inspires, and transforms, guiding people towards a life teeming with depth, passion, and unbridled freedom. Follow Avery on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/avery.maie _________________________________ Our Sponsors: Interested in experiencing EESystem technology for yourself? Go to unifydhealing.com/COACHABLE Discover the power of vibro-acoustic technology with InHarmony at iaminharmony.com and use code COACHABLE _________________________________ 0:00 Intro 5:15 Avery’s Background 13:15 Lack of conversations 16:30 Curating a standard of safety 19:20 Owning your expression 25:00 WomanISHer Outline 28:00 Capacity of Pleasure 29:00 Erotic Blueprint _________________________________ The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ Website: https://www.torigordon.com Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4e62a5zpupdFpkErMiEimz?si=e7fb00845d874ac8 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coachable-podcast/id1475408897 _________________________________ Tori Gordon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetorigordon/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetorigordon?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    44 mins
  • 179. Miracles, Mysticism and the Mind of Love with Marianne Williamson

    179. Miracles, Mysticism and the Mind of Love with Marianne Williamson
    Nov 27 2024
    In this insightful episode, Tori Gordon interviews the esteemed Marianne Williamson, discussing her latest book, "Mystic Jesus: The Mind of Love," and exploring the concepts of miracles, mysticism, and the transformative power of love. Marianne offers a unique perspective on the role of Jesus in the modern spiritual seeker's journey, while delving into his metaphysical reality and its alignment with traditional Christian teachings. Tori and Marianne examine the significance of Jesus as an internal teacher and evolutionary elder brother, emphasizing the importance of recognizing his teachings as a guide for personal growth and spiritual transformation. They discuss the practical application of his teachings to our everyday lives through the principles of love and forgiveness. By merging psychological and religious understanding, Marianne presents Jesus as a force transcending religious dogma and imagery, serving as a guide to a new way of thinking and a builder of a more compassionate world. This thought-provoking conversation offers listeners a deeper alignment of heart and mind, providing insights on embracing Jesus as a spiritual force and a savior from fear-based thinking. ____________________ For more than four decades, Marianne Williamson has been a leader of spiritually progressive circles. She is the author of 16 books, four of which have been #1 New York Times best sellers. A quote from the mega-bestseller A Return to Love, “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure…” is considered an anthem for a contemporary generation of seekers. Williamson’s latest book, titled THE MYSTIC JESUS: The Mind of Love, is available online and at bookstores everywhere. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mariannewilliamson/ Website: Marianne.com Substack: MarianneWilliamson.Substack.com Link to purchase THE MYSTIC JESUS: The Mind of Love: https://www.harpercollins.com/products/the-mystic-jesus-marianne-williamson?variant=41001460138018 ____________________ Our Sponsors: Interested in experiencing EESystem technology for yourself? Go to unifydhealing.com/COACHABLE Discover the power of vibro-acoustic technology with InHarmony at iaminharmony.com and use code COACHABLE ____________________ 0:00 Intro 4:00 Different than the traditional Christian approach 9:30 How do we return to love? 13:00 The separation between our culture 15:30 We are rethinking our ways 18:00 Our character needs to change 19:25 The illusion of separation 26:15 A worldview of separation 29:30 Enlightenment is a shift in self perception 30:05 Awareness of love’s presence 38:15 Meeting mask to mask 44:25 Relationships as a mirror ____________________ The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ Website: https://www.torigordon.com Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4e62a5zpupdFpkErMiEimz?si=e7fb00845d874ac8 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coachable-podcast/id1475408897 Tori Gordon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetorigordon/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetorigordon?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • 178. Reclaim Your Personal Power with Orlando Zuniga

    178. Reclaim Your Personal Power with Orlando Zuniga
    Nov 20 2024
    In this transformative episode, Tori Gordon interviews Orlando Zuniga as they delve into the topic of reclaiming personal power. They explore our relationship with power and the importance of taking back control in our lives, particularly in a time when we entrust power to elected officials. Orlando shares his expertise and sets the stage for a conversation about how we learn to give our power away from the moment we are born. Tori and Orlando provide practical steps to reclaim power and discuss the significance of assigning that power to ourselves and our close relationships, ultimately creating the lives we desire. Throughout the episode, they address various aspects of personal empowerment, including overcoming division, nurturing our inner child, healing past wounds, and the responsibility that comes with reclaiming power. By examining our early experiences with power dynamics and societal structures, Tori and Orlando shed light on the transformative journey of personal growth and healing. Listeners will gain insights on embracing unity, refocusing on internal strength, and the importance of allowing the organic process of growth to unfold in our lives. This episode serves as a powerful guide for those seeking to reclaim their personal power and create lasting, positive change. _________________________________ Orlando Zuniga is a licensed mental health clinician and certified life coach. Orlando's specialization is in relationships. Orlando's work and clinical practice, continues to evolve over the 13+ years of integrating various modalities into a holistic functional health practice. He works with holistic psychotherapy, functional health, and integrative medicine. A current focus is pioneering psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy along side the human potential movement. Visit Orlando’s Website at www.TransformaTherapy.com _________________________________ Our Sponsors: Interested in experiencing EESystem technology for yourself? Go to unifydhealing.com/COACHABLE Discover the power of vibro-acoustic technology with InHarmony at iaminharmony.com and use code COACHABLE _________________________________ 0:00 Intro 3:00 Orlando’s background 7:15 When are we first introduced to power dynamics? 10:20 Relationship with power and privilege 13:00 How do we become sovereign in a systematic culture 16:20 Navigating division 20:00 Reparenting yourself 22:20 Navigating personal power as a victim 31:30 Externally sourcing your power 36:30 The responsibility of power 41:30 How to reclaim your power 56:00 Allowing the natural process _________________________________ The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ Website: https://www.torigordon.com Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4e62a5zpupdFpkErMiEimz?si=e7fb00845d874ac8 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coachable-podcast/id1475408897 Tori Gordon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetorigordon/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetorigordon?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices If you are a victim of domestic violence please reach out to 800-799-7233 or online at https://www.thehotline.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • 177. Exploring Spirit Realms with Intuitive Lizzie Tilia

    177. Exploring Spirit Realms with Intuitive Lizzie Tilia
    Nov 13 2024
    In this episode, Tori Gordon interviews intuitive Lizzie Tilia as they explore the fascinating world of spirit realms. Lizzie shares her personal journey, beginning with her childhood experience with OCD and her decision to start life anew at the age of 27. They discuss a pivotal moment in Lizzie's life that set her on a spiritual path, leading to her work with the Akashic Records. Lizzie explains the Records and how she honed her unique intuitive skills to connect with this realm of collective knowledge. Tori and Lizzie delve into how readings of the Akashic Records occur, offering listeners a glimpse into the wisdom and guidance available to us. Lizzie provides tips for those seeking to develop their own intuitive gifts and maintain a grounded approach to spirituality. They emphasize the importance of embodiment and protection when navigating spirit realms, stressing the need to balance spiritual exploration with physical well-being. Finally, Tori and Lizzie address the value of releasing confusion and embracing clarity on our spiritual paths. _________________________________ In just three years, Lizzie Tilia transitioned from corporate communications at Nordstrom to an entrepreneur with a devoted following of 480k on TikTok and Instagram. Her secret? A refreshingly authentic approach to spirituality, career growth, and personal development that resonates deeply with modern women. After 11 years in marketing and communications, Lizzie took a leap of faith to build her own business, proving that you can align your career with your soul’s purpose and thrive. As a certified Soul Reading Method practitioner and Akashic Records reader, Lizzie combines intuitive guidance with practical strategy. Her expertise has attracted major wellness brands and features in outlets like The Morning Brew and Forbes. Lizzie is on a mission to help women find deep inner fulfillment through authenticity, intuition, and spirituality. Her content strikes a perfect balance between soulful wisdom and relatable humor, making the spiritual journey feel accessible and fun. Follow Lizzie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzietilia/ Follow Lizzie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzietilia Book an Akashic Record reading: https://www.lizzietilia.com/888 _________________________________ Our Sponsors: Interested in experiencing EESystem technology for yourself? Go to unifydhealing.com/COACHABLE Discover the power of vibro-acoustic technology with InHarmony at iaminharmony.com and use code COACHABLE _________________________________ 0:00 Intro 4:00 Having OCD as a Kid 6:00 Starting life over at 27 9:15 The big moment 16:50 Akashic Records 24:25 How Lizzie Honed Her Unique Skills 28:00 Reading of Akashic Records 30:50 Tips for Developing Your Own Gifts 38:00 Grounded Spirituality 44:15 Stop the Confusion 55:00 The Importance of Embodiment and Protection _________________________________ The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ Website: https://www.torigordon.com Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4e62a5zpupdFpkErMiEimz?si=e7fb00845d874ac8 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coachable-podcast/id1475408897 Tori Gordon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetorigordon/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetorigordon?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • 176. Discover Your Soul’s Purpose w/ Sahara Rose

    176. Discover Your Soul’s Purpose w/ Sahara Rose
    Nov 6 2024
    Tori Gordon interviews Sahara Rose, delving into the topic of discovering one's soul's purpose. They discuss Sahara's "Five Stages of Dharma Discovery," providing insights to help listeners identify and embrace their life's calling. Tori and Sahara explore the realization that we each have a unique purpose and the importance of self-improvement in preparing for our dharma. They discuss the transformative period known as "The Awakening" and how it allows for the development and refinement of one's dharma. As they examine stepping into our dharma, Tori and Sahara emphasize the significance of doing so with courage and conviction. They touch on the value of humility in the journey toward purpose, likening it to "sweeping the floors" in service of our calling. The conversation turns to the role of pain as a teacher, highlighting the lessons it offers and the importance of acknowledging and moving through it. They address the common tendency to avoid pain and offer guidance on embracing it as a catalyst for growth. Wrapping up the episode, Tori and Sahara encourage listeners to tune in to love, fostering self-awareness and embracing the unique path toward our soul's purpose. _________________________________ Sahara Rose helps you embody your fullest expression. She’s a spiritual teacher, musical artist and has been called “a leading voice in the millennial generation” by Deepak Chopra, who wrote the forewords of her three books. She hosts the Highest Self Podcast, which has been the #1 spirituality podcast in the US over the past 7 years with over 45 million downloads. She loves tackling life's biggest questions and matters of the heart in a way that's fun, grounded and relatable. She’s the co-founder of Highest Self Institute, a premier spiritual coaching certification school as well as a musical artist who creates music you feel good about getting stuck in your head combining fresh afro beats with vibey Middle Eastern melodies. Her premier album, My Body Is An Altar, is now streaming everywhere. Grab a copy of Discover Your Dharma here: https://iamsahararose.com/dharma Take the Dharma Archetype Quiz here: https://dharmaarchetypequiz.com/ Dive into her podcast here: https://shor.by/highestselfpodcast Listen to My Body Is An Altar on Spotify + watch the music video on Youtube: https://highviberecords.fanlink.tv/MyBodyIsAnAltar Connect with her on Instagram: www.instagram.com/iamsahararose Explore her books + courses: www.iamsahararose.com _________________________________ Our Sponsors: Interested in experiencing EESystem technology for yourself? Go to unifydhealing.com/COACHABLE Discover the power of vibro-acoustic technology with InHarmony at iaminharmony.com and use code COACHABLE _________________________________ 0:00 Intro 9:00 The Five Stages of Dharma Discovery 14:00 Stage 1: Realizing You Have a Purpose 15:00 Stage 2: Self Improvement 16:50 Stage 3: The Awakening 19:00 Stage 4: Dharma Development 22:10 Stage 5: Stepping Into Your Dharma 30:00 Sweep The Floors 34:00 Pain, Our Great Teacher 43:00 The Avoidance of Pain 49:45 Tune in to Love _________________________________ Register for the Embracing Authenticity Virtual Workshop on November 12th: https://stan.store/thetorigordon/p/unmask-your-true-self The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ Website: https://www.torigordon.com Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4e62a5zpupdFpkErMiEimz?si=e7fb00845d874ac8 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coachable-podcast/id1475408897 Tori Gordon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetorigordon/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetorigordon?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 8 mins