In this episode of That’s Pure Leadership, host Chris DenHerder explores the messy, powerful, and necessary path of staying true to yourself—especially when the pressure to perform, conform, or please is louder than your own voice.

From early-career fears of rejection to the transformative year of “unschooling” that helped rebuild his confidence, Chris reflects on the moments that helped him stop toning it down and start showing up fully. He shares how chasing authenticity led to better relationships, unexpected opportunities, and even the courage to say “I’m not for you” when values didn’t align.

This episode is a reminder that you won’t be for everyone—and that’s exactly the point. Because when you go where you’re celebrated, not just tolerated, that’s when the real growth begins.

In this first guest episode of That’s Pure Leadership, host Chris DenHerder sits down with J.R. VanderWall—small business owner, high school coach, Ironman triathlete, and Grandville city council member—for a powerful conversation about personal growth, navigating change, and the value of mentorship.

J.R. shares his journey of balancing family, business, athletics, and community leadership, offering grounded wisdom like “control what you can control” and “every day is an opportunity.” From coaching youth sports to shaping character through discomfort, this episode is full of real-world leadership lessons rooted in resilience, humility, and heart.

If you’ve ever struggled to find balance or wondered how to lead while growing yourself—this one’s for you.

Fear shows up every time we care about something deeply—and leadership is no exception. In this solo episode, host Chris DenHerder shares a personal and vulnerable look at what it really means to take action in the face of fear. From struggling to make phone calls to launching a podcast, Chris unpacks how growth comes after the leap—not before.

Featuring stories of imposter syndrome, real behind-the-scenes doubt, and a bold business case that proves there’s always room in the arena (yes, even for canned water), this episode is a reminder that confidence doesn’t come from being fearless—it comes from showing up scared, and doing it anyway.