Matt Bair and Ryan Hedrick discuss how jealousy can quietly surface in the caregiving journey—especially when the person you've been helping through addiction starts getting clean and rebuilding their life. It’s a shift that can feel confusing. Suddenly, the person you supported is gaining momentum, getting recognition, maybe even moving forward faster than you expected—and you're left sorting through your own emotions.

They talk about how this dynamic plays out in real life: the unspoken tension, the guilt that can come with feeling resentful, and the need for caregivers to have their own space to heal. Matt and Ryan share personal stories, real talk, and helpful takeaways for anyone who's ever carried the emotional weight of someone else's recovery.

This episode is about honesty, not shame—and about giving caregivers permission to feel, process, and grow. Because when someone you love gets better, your journey doesn’t end. In a lot of ways, it’s just beginning.

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Matt Bair and Ryan Hedrick sit down to talk about the tricky line between being a sponsor and being a caregiver. They get into how sponsorship can provide structure, support, and accountability—but also how the lines can blur when you're helping someone you love. It’s not always easy to know when you’re helping and when you might be doing too much. In this episode, they share personal stories, talk about setting boundaries, and explain how both sponsors and caregivers can show up in healthy, balanced ways without burning out.

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Matt Bair and Ryan Hedrick reflect on their recovery journey. Over the last several years, they've faced significant challenges, but they haven't returned to drugs or alcohol. They discuss how that’s been possible, their caregivers' role, and what it’s like to stay in recovery while handling the ups and downs of everyday life.

Caregivers—whether family, friends, or mentors—can be the difference between staying stuck and moving forward. For many in recovery, that kind of support can shift the entire direction of their lives.

If you're supporting someone struggling with addiction, there are resources available to help:

• Al-Anon Family Groups: Provides support for those affected by someone else's drinking.

  • Website: https://al-anon.org

  • Phone: 1-888-4AL-ANON (1-888-425-2666)Facebook+9Al-Anon Family Groups+9stl-al-anon.org+9Al-Anon Family Groups+1Find Recovery+1

• Nar-Anon Family Groups: Offers support for families and friends of individuals with drug addiction.

  • Website: https://www.nar-anon.org

  • Phone: 877-424-4491Nar-Anon of New Jersey+1Al-Anon Family Groups+1

• Partnership to End Addiction: Provides resources and support for families dealing with a loved one's substance use.

  • Website: https://drugfree.org

  • Helpline: 1-855-378-4373NOT ONE MORE ALABAMAEluna+1Facebook+1

• SAMHSA’s National Helpline: A free, confidential, 24/7 treatment referral and information service for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.

  • Website: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline

  • Phone: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)

  • Find Supporting Sobriety on any major podcast platform, including Spotify and Apple. Follow on social media @sobriety_pod. Please like, subscribe, and rate the show—it helps more people find it.

    Resources mentioned in this episode:

    • Al-Anon Family Groups

    • AA Online Meetings

    • NA Virtual Meetings

    • Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (Available 24/7)

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