Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA

What do electric shocks, shame sermons, and fake science have in common? They were all used to “pray the gay away.” We’re diving into the twisted world of conversion therapy with survivor and scholar Lucas Wilson. From evangelical trauma to the ex-gay movement’s most delulu masc villains, we’re unpacking the pseudoscience, propaganda, and lifelong scars of this deadly practice, and how survivors are reclaiming their stories.

FOLLOW LUKE
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lukeslamdunkwilson/

FOLLOW US
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/
Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/
Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

00:00 Intro
01:46 Did you grow up religious?
08:23 being gay AND christian?
19:03 Discovering conversion therapy
35:40 The indoctrination is strong
44:14 The science is clear
57:36 Should DL folks be outed?
01:02:49 But the bible says
01:07:11 rejecting religion's teachings
01:10:53 The long term harm

Queer Poverty Project: https://smuniversity.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3ZO1JLxkZZC5E46
Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer
Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA

Monogamy is optional. Hierarchies are fake. And ‘the one’ doesn't exist? We're diving headfirst into the world of Relationship Anarchy with queer academic and certified hottie Pat. From dismantling the dating rulebook to navigating multiple partners without losing your mind, this episode unpacks radical love, intimacy without ownership, and why friendship might just be the new forever.

FOLLOW PAT
Therapy: https://allofyou.ca/Events
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allofyouwellnesscentre/

FOLLOW US
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/
Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/
Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

00:00 Intro
01:32 What is relationship anarchy?
10:50 How do you get into RA?
20:34 Positive impact of RA
27:20 Why choose RA?
41:45 Can it get more radical?
53:28 Building your own RA model
01:06:13 Dating challenges within RA
01:12:26 Creating clarity with multiple partners
01:19:06 Negotiating hierarchies

Queer Poverty Project: https://smuniversity.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3ZO1JLxkZZC5E46
Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer
Betterhelp: https://www.betterhelp.com/collective
Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA

Black masculinity is feared, fetishized, and fiercely policed; so what happens when queerness enters the chat? We’re talking masc performance as survival, straight Black men’s discomfort with queerness, and why traditional masculinity is flopping in 2025. With Haviah Mighty and DJ Blackcat, we’re queering the blueprint and dragging patriarchy by the lacefront.

FOLLOW HAVIAH
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haviahmighty/

FOLLOW BLACKCAT
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/djblackcatt/

FOLLOW US
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/
Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/
Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

00:00 Intro
02:33 Black masculinity from childhood
11:18 Highschool scripts and stereotypes
16:03 Black masc women
21:52 Black women's standards
27:56 Black masculinity in queer spaces
39:38 Cis straight black men
50:59 Loving men
01:03:43 What is masculinity?
01:10:36 What is healthy masculinity?