The holidays are here once again and if you’re not feeling the warm and fuzzies we understand. The holidays can bring up some memories that can be both good and bad. TV commercials, social media or just people in general are telling you to be thankful, merry and joyful. Easier said than done! In episode 173 Jeff and Doreen discuss some tips to help you make it through the holidays.

Book your free call with Jeff at: https://lad-coaching.com/schedule-appointment/

Remember the fairy tales we read as children? Snow White? Cinderella? Beauty and the Beast? Each ended with one version or another of “…and they lived happily ever after.”

In this episode, Jeff and Doreen discuss how the idea of "They lived happily ever after" is not possible because life is 50/50. Imperfect and full of trials and disappointments. This story book phrase is a romantic illusion that can lead to disappointment when people expect life to be perfect.

Book your free call with Jeff at: https://lad-coaching.com/schedule-appointment/

Can a Marriage Survive Adultery? Yes, many marriages do survive infidelity. For thousands of couples, working through the pain and betrayal, learning to forgive, and establishing firm boundaries to prevent future issues have all helped them to rebuild their relationships. With commitment, a renewed focus on growth, and the actions that make love deepen, some marriages even become stronger than they were before. It’s essential to recognize that it’s not the affair itself that strengthens the bond. Rather, it’s the wake-up call and the hard work that follows, allowing the couple to rebuild a solid, healthier relationship.

Book your free call with Jeff at: https://lad-coaching.com/schedule-appointment/

During a divorce, you’re surrounded by a sea of information—but not all sources are equally reliable. With just a few taps on your phone, you can access an entire library of legal documents, guides, and more. Alongside what’s online, you’ll likely receive advice from friends, family, and acquaintances, many of whom may have their own experiences to share (or at least think they do). In this whirlwind of input, it can be challenging to separate helpful guidance from misguided advice. Should you trust your close friend’s perspective, or follow the advice of that well-meaning online blogger? When it comes to something as important as your divorce, knowing who to trust is essential. And, Boundaries is in Episode #8, #9 and #119.

Book your free call with Jeff at: https://lad-coaching.com/schedule-appointment/

One of the lessons that we have teach often is how to recognize the 50-50 good/bad of the world. And a big part of that is learning how to accept pain and to develop the capacity to feel. In the episode Doreen and Jeff discuss the benefits of excepting your feelings and working through the emotions you will experience in marriage, during divorce and after divorce.

Book your free call with Jeff at: https://lad-coaching.com/schedule-appointment/

Running away from emotions and the feelings you’re experiencing before, during and after divorce is often a coping mechanism that can make your problems harder to deal with in the long run. In this episode Doreen and Jeff talk about getting unstuck during your marriage, divorce and afterwards. They discuss that getting unstuck doesn’t mean that you will suddenly going to have clarity about what the rest of your journey will look like, however, baby steps will be the catalyst to get started. Often, getting unstuck means taking a few steps in the dark, and feeling our way through. And that’s OK.

Book your free call with Jeff at: https://lad-coaching.com/schedule-appointment/

In this episode Doreen and Jeff give you more clarity on when it’s time to divorce. If you are in any stage of confusion, this episode is a must listen to. They discuss the warning signs that just might give you the ah ha you need to make the correct discussion in your best interest.

Book your free call with Jeff at: https://lad-coaching.com/schedule-appointment/

In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss different ways to speed up the divorce process. They will give up ways to speed up the process and will not only save you time, but it may also save you money, emotion, and stress. The less confrontational the divorce, generally, the less time it will take.

Book your free call with Jeff at: https://lad-coaching.com/schedule-appointment/