“God’s love for you isn’t tied to performance—He cherishes you just as you are.”

-Kelly

This week, Carol, Tricia, and Kelly dive deep into how our beliefs about God influence our daily lives. The girls tackle thought-provoking questions like, Does your faith feel like an accessory or the core of your existence? They unpack common struggles with performance-based theology, how trauma impacts our view of God, and the liberating truth of being loved by Him unconditionally.

• God’s Unchanging Love: No matter your past or performance, God sees you through the righteousness of Jesus. His love is unconditional.
• Reframing Faith as a Relationship: Faith isn't about checking boxes; it’s about integrating God into every aspect of life—work, family, and even what seem like insignificant moments.
• Overcoming Performance Mindsets: The constant drive for approval can stem from trauma or upbringing. Healing begins with understanding God’s character and seeing yourself through His eyes.

“When we stop living reactively and start setting proactive rhythms, everything changes.”

Do New Year's resolutions leave you feeling defeated by February? This episode is all about shifting from resolutions to rhythms—intentional practices that shape your spiritual life and bring balance to your days. Carol, Tricia, and Kelly share their personal stories of growth, reflection, and the simple steps they’ve taken to build sustainable habits. From daily quiet time with God to laughter-filled game nights, this conversation will inspire you to create rhythms that align with your values and bring peace to your busy life.

3 Key Takeaways:

1. Intentionality is Key: Growth in your faith and life doesn’t happen by accident. Building rhythms like prayer, Bible reading, and journaling sets the stage for transformation.
2. Reflection Fuels Progress: Taking time to look back at the past year, even if it’s messy, reveals how far you’ve come and where God has been at work.
3. Small Steps Matter: Start with just five minutes of silence or one weekly rhythm, and watch how consistency can lead to lasting change.

Recorded live at Hickory Bible Church, Kelly shares heartfelt stories about the greatest gift of all—Jesus, the hope of past, present, and future. Whether it’s unwrapping unexpected gifts, waiting on God’s timing, or running with hastetoward Jesus, this episode will remind you of the true meaning of Christmas.

On Trusting God’s Timing: “The Israelites waited centuries for a Savior—and sometimes the greatest gifts come in the most unexpected ways.”

Remember:

• Jesus is the Gift for Every Season:
  Whether you’re in a season of waiting, grief, or joy, Jesus is not just the baby in the manger—He’s our present hope and future rescuer.

• God’s Gifts Often Look Different Than We Expect:
  Sometimes the gifts we receive—like a handmade tree or a humble Savior—aren’t what we imagined, but they’re exactly what we need.

• Jesus is Praying for You Right Now:
  He knows your struggles, your fears, and your joys. Let this Christmas be a time to run toward Him and share the hope you’ve found with others.

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"Being perfectly imperfect this Christmas is okay – that’s when people see the real Jesus in us." -Kelly

The holidays can bring so much anticipation, but they can also bring stress, exhaustion, and unmet expectations. Carol, Tricia, and Kelly gathered live at Hickory Bible Church for a heartfelt and fun Christmas conversation about keeping Jesus at the center of this season.

From childhood stories of disappointing gifts (hello, Oral B toothbrush!) to reflections on Hurricane Helene’s aftermath, the girls share how slowing down, leaning into community, and clinging to God’s hope can transform the season.

Settle under the glow of your Christmas lights and join us as we remember what matters most this season: Jesus.

3 Takeaways from the Episode:

1. Be Still and Reflect – Whether it’s sitting by the Christmas tree lights or pausing for quiet moments, take time to slow down and focus on Jesus.
2. Embrace Imperfection – The perfect Christmas doesn’t exist, but God’s hope shines brightest when we’re real, honest, and imperfect.
3. Find and Share Hope – When life feels overwhelming, lean into God’s promises and look for ways to share hope with others in your community.

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Christmas is full of joy, love, and sometimes tears. In this episode, Carol, Tricia, and Kelly talk about their favorite holiday traditions, from Advent devotionals to nativity sets that bring the neighborhood together. They also talk about balancing the season’s joy with the weight of grief, offering encouragement for those missing loved ones during the holidays. With laughs, relatable stories, and practical advice, the girls remind you that Christmas doesn’t have to be perfect—it just needs to be meaningful. Grab some hot chocolate, light your favorite candle, and join the conversation about making this holiday season all about Jesus.

• Intentional Traditions Can Be Transformative

  • Carol, Tricia, and Kelly share how meaningful traditions, like setting up an Advent wreath or a nativity set, can help families stay focused on Jesus during the holidays. Carol reflects on the joy of decorating early this year and finding ways to keep Jesus at the center.

• Balancing Joy and Grief During the Holidays

  • The girls talk about navigating grief during the holiday season, with Carol reflecting on the loss of her mother and how she’s working to celebrate her mom’s favorite traditions. Kelly and Tricia offer practical advice, like creating an escape plan for overwhelming moments and giving yourself grace.

• Releasing Unrealistic Expectations

  • Carol admits the pressure of Pinterest-perfect holidays can feel overwhelming, while Tricia shares her strategy of keeping decorations simple and the same every year. Together, they encourage listeners to embrace authentic celebrations that reflect their values rather than societal pressures.

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Girls, let’s talk about hospitality—real, messy, perfectly imperfect hospitality. This Christmas, we’re unpacking what it really means to welcome people into our homes and lives. Spoiler: it’s not about the Pinterest-perfect decor or the five-star meals (thank goodness!).

We’re sharing funny stories, honest struggles, and the joy that comes when we let go of perfection and focus on what truly matters—connecting with others and sharing Jesus’ love.

So grab your coffee and settle in for a chat that’ll leave you laughing, reflecting, and maybe even inspired to open your home this season, mismatched placemats and all!Main Points

1. Redefining Hospitality: The hosts discuss shifting the focus from outward appearances to creating spaces where others feel welcome and loved, mirroring the heart of Christ.
2. The Power of Vulnerability: Through funny and poignant personal stories, they explore how embracing imperfection opens the door to deeper relationships and spiritual growth.
3. Hospitality as Ministry: Practical ways to build relationships with neighbors and community members, especially those with different beliefs, as an opportunity to share the Gospel authentically.

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Gratitude doesn’t always come easy, especially in a world that pulls us to look forward or backward. But what if the secret to contentment is simply being present? Join Carol, Kelly, and Tricia as they unpack the joys and challenges of gratitude—from navigating difficult seasons to appreciating life’s smallest blessings. With stories of real struggles, honest laughter, and heartfelt truths, this episode dives deep into why gratitude isn’t just a feeling but a choice rooted in faith.

Learn practical ways to cultivate thankfulness, even when it feels forced, and discover how God uses gratitude to transform our hearts. Whether it’s the value of a quiet moment, the unexpected blessings in hardship, or the joy of simply being still, you’ll leave inspired to embrace the beauty of now.

1. Gratitude is a Choice: Choosing to give thanks—even when it feels forced—can reshape our hearts and minds.
2. Be Present: True contentment and gratitude grow when we embrace the present instead of looking back or ahead.
3. Find God in the Small Things: From a hug to a moment of stillness, God’s blessings often come in everyday moments.

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