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What does it mean to trust when understanding seems impossibly out of reach? During this special Women's History Month episode, we dive deep into the remarkable story of Mary, mother of Jesus, and uncover a spiritual practice that revolutionized my own journey through grief.

The story seems simple on the surface—a twelve-year-old Jesus remains behind at the temple while his parents unknowingly travel home without him. But within this familiar narrative lies a profound revelation about faith. When Mary finally locates Jesus teaching among the temple scholars, his response puzzles her: "Didn't you know I had to be in my Father's house?" Scripture tells us plainly that Mary "did not understand," yet in the very next breath reveals that "she treasured all these things in her heart."

This tension between not understanding and still choosing to trust resonates deeply with my own recent experience of miscarriage. Through tears, I share how Mary's example of collecting moments with God—like precious seashells along a shore—provided a lifeline during my darkest days of grief. These "seashell moments" reminded me that painful circumstances don't represent God's final word or ultimate plan.

The greatest gift Mary offers modern women isn't perfect motherhood or unwavering courage (though she demonstrated both), but rather this practice of treasuring divine moments that sustain us when life makes no sense. Her ability to say "I don't understand, but I trust you" creates a pathway through confusion that doesn't deny our questions but anchors us through them.

Whether you're facing impossible questions, navigating grief, or simply feeling disconnected from God's plan, this episode offers gentle encouragement to collect your own faith tokens—those unmistakable moments with God that will sustain you when understanding seems far away. Join our community of women growing together in faith, and discover how Mary's ancient wisdom speaks powerfully to our modern struggles.

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What does it mean to trust God when His plans make absolutely no sense to us? Mary, the mother of Jesus, offers us a masterclass in faith that doesn't depend on understanding.

During this Women's History Month episode, we dive into the often-overlooked story from Luke 2 where Mary and Joseph lose track of twelve-year-old Jesus at the Passover festival. When they finally discover Him teaching in the temple, Jesus responds with the puzzling words: "Didn't you know I had to be in my Father's house?" Scripture explicitly tells us Mary didn't understand what He meant—yet she "treasured all these things in her heart."

This treasuring practice becomes our focus as we explore how collecting moments of God's faithfulness (like gathering seashells along the shore) prepares us for seasons when trust must operate without understanding. Mary's ability to hold both confusion and faith simultaneously would eventually sustain her through watching her son die on a cross.

The episode takes a vulnerable turn as I share my own journey through miscarriage in 2024 and how Mary's example guided me through overwhelming questions and grief. When understanding fails us, we can still choose trust—not as a denial of our pain, but as an acknowledgment that God's goodness transcends our limited perspective.

Whether you're currently navigating uncertainty or preparing for future challenges, this episode offers practical wisdom for developing a faith that remains steadfast even when answers aren't forthcoming. Subscribe now and join our growing community of women seeking to live freely in Christ, embracing both the questions and the trust that defines authentic faith.

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Fear can be an overwhelming emotion, but it can also be a stepping stone to deeper faith and understanding. Join us as we explore the intricate relationship between fear, community, and faith in our latest episode. The host shares personal insights and heartfelt stories about navigating fear while relying on Jesus for strength and guidance. We discuss the importance of having a supportive community around us, providing anecdotes that reveal how connection can play a crucial role in healing.

Scriptural reflections are pivotal in this conversation, particularly focusing on the promise found in Isaiah 43: fear not, for I have redeemed you. This verse serves as a powerful reminder that in our most challenging moments, we are not alone. Practical tips are offered throughout the episode, emphasizing how listeners can invite Jesus into their fears and encourage others to do the same.

Throughout the dialogue, we also touch on popular culture, with references to the movie "Inside Out," which brilliantly depicts fear's role in our emotional landscape. Historical figures such as Winston Churchill provide inspiring examples of confronting fear in times of uncertainty. Ultimately, this episode calls listeners to be proactive, facing their fears with courage and faith.

If you're seeking encouragement and a sense of community, this episode is for you. Join us, and let’s deepen our understanding of faith together. Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review! Your journey through fear can lead to a lifetime of freedom and joy.

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In this episode, we dive into the transformative themes of healing and restoration within community, using the story of Matthew, the tax collector, as a poignant example. By examining how Jesus welcomed Matthew into his circle, we underscore the importance of acceptance and the potential for change within each of us. Listeners will learn about the complexities of friendship, including the balance of loyalty and expectations and how forgiveness serves as a pathway to deeper connections.

Join us as we navigate the challenging terrain of conflict and vulnerability, and discover how these elements are fundamental to authentic relationships. We illuminate the biblical concept of forgiveness, encouraging listeners to let go of grudges and embrace grace. Our conversation reinforces the idea that healing happens in community, as it is here that we find strength in shared experiences, support in times of need, and the opportunity to grow together in faith.

If you’re seeking practical insights on nurturing friendships while navigating life's complexities, this episode is for you. Tune in now and let’s journey together towards building a community marked by love, trust, and understanding. We would love for you to join our ongoing conversations, so please subscribe, share, and leave us a review.

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Why do many Christian women struggle with forming deep friendships, and how can we overcome these challenges? In our latest episode of the Freely She Could podcast, I, Soli, invite you to join me on a journey through the intricate dynamics of community and friendships. We explore the necessity of vulnerability and intentionality, particularly when faced with confrontation and conflict. Drawing insights from a thought-provoking article, we uncover how our fast-paced culture affects these relationships, urging us to reevaluate our approach to connection through the teachings of Jesus. Discover how embodying His love and compassion can transform the way we interact with one another.

Prepare to rethink friendship through the metaphor of "different types of soup." I share a personal story that highlights cultural expectations when my friends didn't bring me soup while I was sick—a custom deeply rooted in my Korean American heritage. This led me to reflect on how different expressions of care, like texts, calls, or gestures of encouragement, can enrich our bonds. By understanding these diverse expressions, we learn the importance of communication, using "I" statements to prevent misunderstandings and build healthier relationships. As we wrap up this episode, we challenge you to evaluate your friendships against these insights and get ready for our next conversation on healing and restoration in community.

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What does it truly mean to put someone else first in a marriage? Join us as Steve and I, Soli, share an honest conversation about the relentless journey of "dying to self" within our relationship. We talk about the transition from our single lives, where personal interests reigned supreme, to a shared life that demands daily sacrifices. Steve opens up about the challenges he faced in prioritizing God and his marriage, moving away from his passions for music and socializing. Listen along as we exchange stories about the seemingly small things—like making the bed or handling a “purgatory basket” of clothes—that can hold great significance for harmony and communication in our partnership.

Our dialogue extends into the spiritual realm, delving into how faith in Christ shapes this journey of transformation. We explore the beauty and struggles of loving Christ over familiar sins, and the profound impact this has on our marriage. As a wife, embracing faith means acknowledging that my way isn't always the right way and valuing the importance of respect and unity. Steve and I dig into how our different communication styles—his introversion and my detailed approach—can enrich our relationship despite the challenges. Discover how these differences don't just test our patience but ultimately serve to strengthen our bond and faith journey together.

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What happens when you let go of your personal desires and allow a divine plan to take the lead in your life? On this episode of the Freely She Could podcast, we're exploring the profound journey of "dying to self" and how it reshapes our identity in Christ. I'll share my personal transformation inspired by Fenelon's 17th-century insights and how they've guided my path from worldly pursuits to a deep relationship with Jesus. Through stories and reflections, we navigate the delicate art of balancing faith with everyday life, while embracing grace and mercy as our constant companions.

Together with teachings from Dr. DW Ekstrand, we uncover how the concept of dying to self can lead to life-altering experiences and unexpected revelations. I'll recount a personal story about a family conflict and the power of responding with love, inspired by Peter's denial and redemption. These moments, though challenging, reveal our true selves and align us more closely with God's will. By understanding our new identity in Christ, we not only find personal freedom but also the courage to let Christ guide our actions in alignment with His divine purpose.

As we ponder self-awareness and surrender, practical steps such as the Beatitudes mirror activity come into focus, offering tools for spiritual growth. It's about prioritizing obedience to God, even when emotions run high, and inviting the Holy Spirit's guidance. Get ready to embrace a journey of self-discovery, grace, and community support. Stay tuned, as we'll be kicking off our mini-series "Better Together," where my husband Steve joins me to discuss how dying to self plays out in our relationships, inviting transformation and deeper connection.

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Could fear and doubt be silently shaping your spiritual journey, even as joy seems to dominate your faith? This episode tackles the paradox many women face, where joy in faith coexists with unspoken anxieties. We unravel a compelling study by the Barna Group, revealing why such a significant number of women might hesitate to acknowledge their struggles. Sharing a deeply personal story, I reflect on a childhood vow to never sing again, a decision born out of fear and self-doubt. This story becomes a launching pad to explore how these emotions can take root in our lives and how overcoming them requires vulnerability and courage.

Journey with us as we explore how faith and worship can be powerful tools for overcoming deep-seated fears and doubts. I recount my own 'dark night of the soul,' where singing felt like an insurmountable challenge. With support from friends and a nudge from the divine, I found the strength to lead worship, breaking free from the chains of past trauma and discovering a new sense of joy and freedom. We reflect on the idea that embracing our weaknesses can open us to God's strength, transforming challenges into opportunities for joy. Tune in for practical insights on nurturing joy in your faith journey, whether through singing, journaling, or other meaningful practices.