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In this compelling episode, counselor and author John Sternfels explores the Therapeutic Marital Healing Separation Agreement—a structured, intentional approach to marital separation that prioritizes healing, emotional safety, and personal responsibility. Designed specifically for couples in crisis who desire clarity, growth, and the possibility of reconciliation, this agreement creates a framework that supports individual and relational healing rather than paving the way for divorce.

John walks listeners through the key elements of the agreement, its therapeutic purpose, and how it differs from traditional separations or legal arrangements. He also addresses an overlooked crucial aspect: who this agreement is not for. The episode clarifies that this approach may not be appropriate for couples dealing with ongoing abuse, untreated addictions, or those unwilling to engage in honest therapeutic work.

Whether you are a clinician, a spouse navigating betrayal or trauma, or someone seeking guidance through relational chaos, this episode offers clinical insight, practical tools, and hope for couples committed to healing with intention.

John Sternfels, LPC, NCC, CSAT, CMAT, CCPS, C-SASI
Owner/Clinical Director of NorthPoint Professional Counseling
Counselor and Author

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