In this heartfelt and vulnerable episode of The Founder Collective, host Anthony Hart leads an open-table discussion that dives deep into identity, healing, and God’s design for wholeness—especially in the context of relationships and singleness. With Father’s Day and Men’s Mental Health Month as the backdrop, this gathering features powerful voices—from those navigating singleness and divorce to those in long-term marriages—all offering wisdom, real-life experiences, and spiritual insight.

Whether you’re single, married, divorced, or in the waiting, this conversation reminds us that before we pursue “the one,” we must become whole in Christ. Get ready for a soul-stirring talk that challenges cultural definitions of manhood, breaks generational cycles, and invites you to trust God’s timing over your own.

• Why your identity must be rooted in Christ before entering a relationship
  

• The difference between being a manly man and a godly man
  

• What it looks like to walk through healing before stepping into partnership
  

• The pressure cooker effect of unprocessed emotions and how it impacts men’s mental health
  

• Real stories of transformation through surrender, celibacy, and waiting on God
  

• How women and men alike can prepare for godly marriage by first becoming whole
  

• A deep reminder: God is the ultimate helpmate in our seasons of loneliness and longing
  

• [09:00] The truth about men’s mental health and the desire for companionship
  

• [11:45] Redefining masculinity: Godly vs. manly men
  

• [17:00] Undoing generational patterns and expectations
  

• [23:00] Don’t settle for the right now—wait for the right one
  

• [27:10] Delight in the Lord before expecting the desires of your heart
  

• [32:00] Why your future spouse should impress you with their faith
  

• [36:45] A marriage that almost didn’t happen—and how God restored it
  

• [43:00] Becoming the partner you desire before God brings them
  

• [48:00] Encouragement for those growing weary in the waiting
  

• [54:00] The mic-drop moment: “You’ve got to become a bride before you can be a groom.”
  

• [57:00] Final encouragement: run your race with endurance and keep your eyes on Jesus
  

“Just because you're a manly man doesn't mean you're a godly man.”

“You’ve got to become a bride before you can be a groom.”

“God doesn’t want you to settle for ‘good enough’—He wants to give you His best.”

“Heal people attract healed people.”

• The Meaning of Marriage by Tim Keller: https://a.co/d/hlDpRii
  

• Isaiah 40:31 and Hebrews 12:1-3
  

• The Bedroom and the Bible podcast (recommended for marriage prep): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bedroom-bible/id1778936152

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