In this episode of the Family Law Cafe Podcast, host Joanna Toch speaks with Anna Florio, a relationship coach specialising in helping individuals—particularly men—navigate relationship challenges and post-divorce recovery. Anna shares her journey from being an informal relationship advisor to becoming an expert in relationship dynamics, especially concerning narcissistic relationships. She discusses why people repeat unhealthy patterns, how past trauma affects relationship choices, and why men often struggle with emotional support during divorce. The conversation also explores emotional abuse, infidelity, and the psychological impact of breakups, offering insights into healing and self-awareness.

Show Notes
00:00 Introduction – Joanna Toch introduces the podcast and guest, Anna Florio.
02:00 Anna’s Background – From childhood peacemaker to relationship coach.
06:30 Why We Repeat Relationship Patterns – Recognising subconscious behaviour loops.
12:45 Narcissistic Relationships – Identifying red flags and breaking free.
18:20 Emotional Abuse in Relationships – Why people tolerate toxic behaviour.
24:50 The Psychology of Infidelity – Different motivations for men and women.
31:15 Divorce, Emotional Trauma, and Suicide Rates in Men – Why men struggle post-divorce.
38:00 Moving Forward After a Toxic Relationship – Healing techniques and self-awareness.
45:00 Final Thoughts & Where to Find Anna Florio

5 Key Takeaways
Self-awareness is the key to healthy relationships – Recognising and addressing subconscious patterns prevents repeated mistakes.
Narcissistic relationships are built on manipulation and control – The cycle of abuse involves idealisation, devaluation, and discarding.
Emotional abuse is often dismissed but has lasting damage – Many people stay in toxic relationships due to childhood conditioning.
Men struggle with post-divorce emotional support – Societal expectations make it harder for men to seek help.
Healing requires introspection and tailored support – Relationship recovery involves emotional work, not just moving on.