Coming to your from Kail's office aka Kail's house, meaning anything can happen! Becky and Kail talk about celebrating Christmas and how it's evolved (or not) throughout the years. Becky talks about meeting Elijah for the first time and reuniting with Kail's kids.

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A listener is ready for marriage after being in a long term relationship with two children and a shared bank account but her partner is not on the same page. Kail and Becky give their thoughts on the situation and how they came to wanting marriage themselves. Is there a such thing as being too honest in a relationship? When is it appropriate to cut off a friendship? Becky wants Kail to have a village of trusted people but Kail is reluctant at the idea.

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Becky and Kail are joined by Alessandra to talk about the importance of friendships throughout the years and how they have changed. Becky explains the complexities of her male friendships, Alessandra shares how she worked through political differences with a friend, and Kail feels like she's only now learning things she should have learned in her 20s.

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Becky expresses her excitement for this new journey with Kail and the podcast, while Kail tries to not fall into old bad habits. Becky was asked what her favorite era of her life was and it starts the conversation around why our 30s end up being better than our 20s. Both listener stories revolve around grief and losing someone and makes Kail cry again.

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Lindsie joins the show and Becky gets to ask her all the juicy questions about her life. Kail clears up a situation with Becky from five years ago. Lindsie explains why she has yet to unpack some of her past trauma and why she's always felt like the outsider in her own family.

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[TW: THIS EPISODE CONTAINS MENTIONS OF MISCARRIAGES, LOSS, AND SUICIDE]

Becky shares some good news regarding wife Leah and their IVF journey, but also talks about the mixed emotions that has come with it. A listener writes in about losing both her estranged biological father and amazing stepdad in a short amount of time and how she's had to nagivate her grief. Kail doubles down on not wanting her kids to take care of her in old age.

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In the premiere episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into the ups and downs of their long-time friendship and discuss what they learned after years apart. Reflecting on the past five years, they address rumors (are they in love with each other?), clarify the original timing for their podcast’s launch, and share a heartfelt message about their vision for the show.

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