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Babe Philosophy

Babe Philosophy

By: Meli Wolf and Liv Wickedly
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This is Babe Philosophy, a podcast where questions matter more than answers, where liminal spaces are revered, and where magic is practical. Hosted by Meli Wolf and Liv Wickedly.Meli Wolf and Liv Wickedly Personal Development Personal Success
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  • What does Enneagram say about my sex life? with Lyndsey Fraser, LMFT
    Jun 24 2025
    DOWNLOAD "THE POWER OF TOO MUCH," our FREE modern-day grimoire that helps you reclaim your intensity, your magic, and your voice: https://babephilosophy.comJOIN OUR BABE CHAT, a FREE call with our awesome community: https://stan.store/babephilosophy/p/join-our-free-community-call 📚 SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Meli and Liv welcome Lyndsey Fraser, a licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist, to explore the intersection of the Enneagram and sexuality. They discuss how understanding one's Enneagram type can illuminate patterns in sexual relationships, enhance emotional intimacy, and facilitate better communication between partners. Lyndsey shares insights on the different instinctual stackings and how they influence sexual desire and connection. The discussion also touches on the challenges of navigating singlehood, the importance of emotional vulnerability, and practical steps for integrating Enneagram knowledge into personal and relational growth.🤝Connect with LyndseyInstagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lyndseyfraserlmftYouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@lyndseyfraser🫀About LyndseyLyndsey Fraser, MA, LMFT, CST is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, and an International Enneagram Association (IEA) Accredited Enneagram Professional. She has presented on the intersection of the Enneagram, relationships, and sexuality in various U.S. and international forums. She is one of the few sex therapists in the world working explicitly with the Enneagram, Lyndsey regularly makes guest appearances on podcasts and offers private and public presentations as an internationally recognized Enneagram “sexpert.” Over the years, her workshops on sexuality and the Enneagram have ranged from 2-day weekend workshops to 8 to 10-week-long groups. Lyndsey also has had a private practice for the last thirteen years in South Minneapolis where she specializes in relationships and sexuality utilizing the Enneagram.🤓 TakeawaysThe Enneagram consists of nine different personality types that influence how we approach the world and relationships.Understanding your Enneagram type can provide insights into your sexual desires and needs.Different instinctual stackings (social, self-preservation, sexual) significantly impact how individuals experience sexuality.Desire discrepancies in relationships often stem from differing Enneagram types and instinctual stackings.Communication about sexual needs is often lacking in relationships, leading to misunderstandings.Each Enneagram type has unique strengths and challenges in relationships and sexuality.Finding a common language through the Enneagram can help couples navigate their sexual dynamics more effectively.⌛ Chapters00:00 Dope Offers for You & Introduction to Enneagram and Sexuality04:24 Understanding Enneagram Types and Their Sexual Dynamics07:35 The Role of Instinctual Stackings in Sexual Relationships10:29 Incorporating Enneagram in Therapy for Sexual Issues13:14 Navigating Desire Discrepancies in Relationships15:53 The Intersection of Emotions and Sexuality19:00 Finding Balance in Sexual Relationships21:56 Understanding the Triads in Enneagram25:06 Conclusion and Key Takeaways32:58 Understanding Frustration Types in Relationships35:13 Exploring Methodologies for Self-Awareness37:41 The Enneagram's Role in Personal Growth41:03 Navigating Emotional Depths in Relationships44:22 Magnetic Pairings: Enneagram Types in Relationships47:55 Integrating Enneagram Insights into Therapy52:58 Starting Your Enneagram Journey55:21 Enhancing Sexual Relationships through the Enneagram01:00:28 Outro💖 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/babe.philosophy/ 🔗 Website - https://babephilosophy.com🫀 10% off home lab tests, no insurance req’d - https://www.algorx.ai/?ref=BABE (Show notes and captions are AI-assisted. All other content is human-made, original, and proprietary.)
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  • Is feminism killing femininity?
    Jun 19 2025

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    📚 Summary

    In this conversation, Liv and Meli explore the complex relationship between feminism and femininity, discussing how societal expectations and personal experiences shape women's identities. They emphasize the importance of balancing both energies, reclaiming the power of the feminine, and encouraging women to embrace their full spectrum of experiences. The discussion highlights the need for self-connection, intuition, and the rejection of rigid definitions of womanhood, advocating for a more fluid and inclusive understanding of femininity.


    🤓 Takeaways

    • Feminism and femininity can coexist without being in opposition.
    • The soft girl movement represents a necessary reclamation of femininity.
    • Women should not feel pressured to choose one identity over another.
    • Intuition and self-connection are crucial for understanding one's own femininity.
    • The conversation around feminism is nuanced and requires open dialogue.
    • Women can embody multiple archetypes throughout their lives.
    • It's important to challenge societal expectations of femininity.
    • Embracing the full spectrum of womanhood allows for personal growth.
    • Feminism should empower women rather than create division.
    • Finding balance between feminine and feminist energies is essential.


    Chapters

    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Feminism and Femininity

    02:18 Exploring the Impact of Feminism on Femininity

    05:28 The Duality of Feminism and Femininity

    11:04 The Balance Between Feminine and Feminist Energies

    15:49 Reclaiming the Power of the Feminine

    22:42 Navigating the Complexities of Womanhood

    29:21 The Importance of Intuition and Self-Connection

    36:30 Finding Your Own Path as a Woman

    47:03 Embracing the Full Spectrum of Womanhood


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    #babephilosophy #podcast #perspectiveshift #mindsetreset



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    56 mins
  • What is femininity? with Kate Shay
    Jun 17 2025

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    📚 Summary

    n this conversation, Katelyn Shay shares her transformative journey of self-discovery and reclamation of femininity after years of conforming to societal standards. She discusses her decision to explant her breast implants and shave her head, exploring the deeper implications of femininity, societal pressures, and personal empowerment. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own relationship with femininity and the courage it takes to break free from societal norms.


    🤝Connect with Kate

    Tattoo Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sondertattoocoPersonal Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamkateshay


    🫀About Kate

    Why is a bio so hard? 😂


    🤓 Takeaways

    • Katelyn's journey began with a desire to reclaim her femininity.
    • She became a mother at a young age, impacting her self-identity.
    • The decision to explant and shave her head was a radical act of self-discovery.
    • Societal norms often dictate women's perceptions of beauty and femininity.
    • Katelyn's upbringing in a religious context shaped her views on femininity.
    • The conversation highlights the importance of self-acceptance and confidence.
    • Women can express their femininity in diverse ways, free from societal judgment.
    • Understanding one's motivations behind body modifications is crucial.
    • The impact of relationships during personal transformation can be profound.
    • Empowerment comes from embracing one's authentic self.


    Chapters

    00:00 Babe Philosophy Offers01:22 Introduction to Femininity04:05 Kate's Journey of Self-Discovery06:58 The Impact of Upbringing on Femininity11:05 Reclaiming Identity: Shaving Head and Explanting13:18 The Aftermath of Transformation17:36 Navigating Relationships Post-Transformation23:01 The Collective Struggle of Women32:38 Empowerment and Reclamation of Femininity39:42 Exploring Femininity and Personal Choices42:43 The Impact of Societal Norms on Body Image46:41 Convenience vs. Authenticity in Self-Expression50:24 The Illusion of Confidence and Femininity57:01 Embracing Individual Journeys in Femininity01:02:31 Redefining Femininity Through Self-Acceptance01:12:49 Outro


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    #babephilosophy #podcast #perspectiveshift #mindsetreset



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    1 hr and 13 mins
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