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Avoiding Average: Living Life Beyond the Ordinary

Avoiding Average: Living Life Beyond the Ordinary

By: Susan Gates Astrocartographer & Soul Coach
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You weren’t born to play small. Avoiding Average is the podcast for soul-led women ready to stop settling and start living a wildly aligned life. Hosted by Susan Gates, a soul coach, astrologer, and ex-engineer, episodes blend inspiring transformation stories, astrocartography, subconscious healing, and intuitive guidance to awaken your purpose. If you're craving depth, freedom, and meaning, this is your sign. No more waiting. Press play—and start avoiding average for good.Susan Gates, Astrocartographer & Soul Coach Spirituality
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  • Avoiding Average: How Radical Authenticity Transforms Your Life
    Jul 27 2025

    ✨ Episode Summary:

    In this deeply personal episode of Avoiding Average, Susan Gates opens up about her journey of self-discovery, healing, and what it truly means to live radically authentic. Sharing powerful insights from her spiritual path and coaching work, Susan challenges listeners to question the ways they’ve settled for average and to reclaim the truth of who they really are.

    If you've ever felt like you're living a life that’s too small for your soul, this episode will inspire you to embrace your uniqueness, break free from societal expectations, and step into the expansive life you came here to live. From generational healing to embracing individuality, Susan lays the foundation for what it means to live a life of true empowerment and soulful alignment.

    🔑 Key Takeaways:

    • Discover the mission behind Avoiding Average and why it matters now more than ever

    • Learn how radical authenticity leads to deeper self-acceptance and spiritual freedom

    • Understand how societal conditioning creates internal disconnection

    • Explore how embracing your individuality can heal generational patterns

    • Get inspired to take aligned steps toward your most empowered self

    💬 Quotes:

    • “You are a unique human being.”

    • “You came here for a reason.”

    • “Self-acceptance makes you less judgmental of others.”


    • 📌 Chapters:
      00:00 – Introduction to Avoiding Average
      03:14 – The Journey of Self-Discovery
      06:16 – Radical Authenticity and Its Importance
      08:42 – Embracing Your Unique Self
      11:10 – Empowerment and Breaking Generational Cycles
      13:01 – Closing Reflections and Invitation to Explore
      Ready to take the next step in your own journey?
      Download the free Burnout Decoder to begin reconnecting with your intuition and power: soulcoachsusan.kit.com/burnout
      🌍 Book an Embodied or Travel Astrology Reading to discover your soul-aligned path: www.avoiding-average.com/travel-astrology
      🌀 Explore the Soulo Pilgrimage transformational program here: www.avoiding-average.com/soulo-pilgrimage

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    14 mins
  • Feeling Stuck or Numb? How Astrology Can Help You Reclaim Your Purpose
    Jul 23 2025

    🎧 Episode Summary

    In this episode of the Avoiding Average podcast, host Susan Gates dives deep into the emotional and energetic roots of burnout and how it often stems from a misalignment with one’s purpose. Susan explains how burnout isn’t always loud and obvious—it can show up subtly as emotional numbness, physical symptoms, or a quiet sense of dissatisfaction, even when things look successful on the outside.

    By weaving in insights from astrology, Susan reveals how understanding your birth chart can illuminate your unique path, natural energy rhythms, and how to navigate personal challenges. This episode empowers listeners to reconnect with their authenticity, reclaim their energy, and reimagine success through the lens of self-awareness and soul alignment.

    🔥 Key Takeaways

    If you’re feeling stuck, uninspired, or like something is "off," this episode is your reminder: you’re more than just one thing, and your path to fulfillment is written in the stars.

    • Burnout can be a signal that you're disconnected from your true purpose.

    • Success on paper doesn’t equal emotional or spiritual fulfillment.

    • Emotional numbness and physical symptoms like headaches or digestive issues are often overlooked signs of burnout.

    • Your astrology chart can offer clues to how you uniquely experience stress and depletion.

    • You are multi-dimensional—and honoring all parts of yourself is key to healing and wholeness.

    • Different "burnout styles" call for different support and resources.

    • 🔊 Sound Bites“Your purpose is more than just one thing.”

    • “Success does not equal happiness.”

    • Episode Chapters00:00 – Understanding Burnout and Purpose
      04:32 – The Connection Between Astrology and Burnout
      07:29 – Finding Balance and Resources for Burnout

      🌟 Resources Mentioned

      • 📘 Download the Free Burnout Style Guide to uncover your unique burnout pattern and learn how to realign with your purpose: soulcoachsusan.kit.com/burnout
      • 🌌 Schedule Your Embodied Astrology Reading or Astrocartography Session: soulcoachsusan.as.me/embodied-astrology

        www.avoiding-average.com/travel-astrology

      • ✨ Learn more about Susan Gates and transformational coaching: www.avoiding-average.com

      📲 Connect + ShareLoved this episode? Be sure to subscribe, rate, and leave a review!
      Tag me on Instagram @soulcoachsusan with your biggest insight.

      💫 Final WordsBurnout is feedback from your body.
      Your body, your emotions, and your soul are asking for more alignment. Let astrology and self-awareness be your compass on the journey back to yourself.

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    9 mins
  • Belonging Beyond Borders: Ancestral Healing, Identity & the Creative Path with Sarinea Meserkhani
    Jul 17 2025
    💫 Episode Summary:In this deeply moving episode of the Avoiding Average podcast, host Susan Gates sits down with Sarinea Meserkhani—a published poet and self-proclaimed "psychedelic sheep"—to explore the transformative journey of personal growth, ancestral healing, and cultural identity.From confronting the weight of familial expectations to embracing her path as an intuitive creative nomad, Sarinea opens up about the soul-deep healing that came through poetry, travel, and trusting her inner voice. After a near-death experience, she began to see life as a bonus and leaned into the unknown with courage and curiosity.Tune in to hear how astrocartography, ancestral grief, and the search for belonging have shaped her life across continents—from New Zealand to Australia. Her poetic lens offers listeners a raw yet uplifting look at what it truly means to face trauma, find community, and reclaim identity through art and intuition.How ancestral grief impacts personal and cultural identityWhy intuition and synchronicity matter on the healing pathThe powerful role of poetry in emotional and historical processingWhat it means to be a "psychedelic sheep" and live outside the boxHow travel and astrocartography guided Sarinea’s life transitionsWays to overcome fear, isolation, and writer’s blockThe importance of community, curiosity, and connection in healing"Everything I have now is a bonus.""I had to grow my wings again.""Home is where you're not alone."00:00 – Welcome & Sarinea’s Journey Begins01:46 – Redefining Success & Breaking Free from Expectations04:34 – How Facing Fears Sparked Transformation08:25 – Using Astrocartography to Navigate Change12:02 – The Power of New Environments & Building Community14:17 – Trusting Intuition While Traveling Alone19:16 – Moving to New Zealand: A Life-Altering Leap22:00 – Life in New Zealand vs. Australia24:19 – Finding Voice Through Artistic Expression26:04 – Entering the World of Poetry29:05 – Navigating Writer’s Block with Compassion31:43 – Exploring the Depths of Ancestral Grief35:12 – Cultural Identity & the Shadow of Trauma40:17 – Finding Belonging in New Spaces46:28 – Community, Curiosity, & Lasting Connection49:32 – Final Reflections & The Power of CuriositySarinea Meserkhani is an ethnically Armenian & German woman who holds Canadian & American citizenship whilecurrently living in Byron Bay, Australia after having spent a couple of years living in Aotearoa New Zealand.She describes herself as a lifelong poet, an avid traveler, a deep well of joy and sorrow in the shape of ahuman, and a dedicated Animist-in-training. She has also been a scholar of the Orphan Wisdom Schoolwith Stephen Jenkinson.Sarinea has had four poems accepted into publications since she was a teenager: "Gone" in The Silent Journey, a compilation by the International Library of Poetry; "Perfection, Unattainable; Vanity,Inevitable" in the literary journal Eclipse: Volume Twenty-One; "Cracked Open Heart" in MandarinMagazine's online literary publication out of Chico, California; and "Armenian" which was published in thevery first issue of Clarion Poetry Magazine based in the United Kingdom.After surviving a near-fatal car crash into a tree on Halloween, just days before her 21st birthday, thecompass by which she has since oriented her life is a firm commitment to exploring the unknown withcourage, kindness, and integrity.She can be reached on Instagram @YouSawRenee or via email at SarineaEM@gmail.com.About your host:Susan Gates is a Travel Astrologer & Transformational Soul Coach helping others align with their purpose through astrology, intuition, and radical self-awareness. Ready to live beyond the average?✨ Book an Embodied Astrology or Astrocartography Reading at www.avoiding-average.com 🎧 Subscribe & explore more episodes of Avoiding Average.
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    56 mins
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