• 103. Dads, Are You Listening? Lessons on Parenting and Connection
    Dec 15 2024

    In this episode, I chat with Ian Abbott about the challenges of parenting, especially from a dad's point of view. We talk about how being aware of emotions is key and how parental anxiety can affect kids.

    Ian shares some great tips from his parenting classes for dads, focusing on how important it is for fathers to connect with their children's feelings.

    We discuss how to find the right balance between pushing kids to grow and giving them support, how curiosity helps us understand emotions, and how parenting roles are changing.

    The conversation centers on creating a safe space for open talks and emotional growth.

    Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions.

    PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 4000+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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    TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 - Introduction

    00:52 - Challenges in Parenting

    01:38 - Emotional Awareness in Parenting

    02:59 - Men Seeking Help

    04:07 - Energetic Influence on Children

    05:49 - Stereotypes of Fatherhood

    06:52 -Guiding Children Through Challenges

    07:27 - Emotional Development in Boys

    09:17 - Goals of Parenting Classes

    10:07 - Cultural Stigma Around Men's Emotions

    10:26 - Benefits of Men's Groups

    11:20 - Single Dads vs. Single Moms

    12:14 - Nurturing and Challenging Dynamics

    13:01 - Importance of Emotional Resilience

    14:01 - Experiences of Discomfort

    15:52 - Personal Growth Through Challenges

    17:42 - Validating Emotions in Parenting

    18:52 - Understanding Immersion in Parenting

    19:10 - Information vs. Conversation in Courses

    20:19 - The Importance of Slowing Down

    23:03 - Curiosity Over Fixing

    23:59 - Building Resilience in Parenting

    26:44 - Emotional Immaturity in Parenting

    27:16 - Role Reversal in Parenting

    29:02 - Modeling Healthy Behavior

    30:20 - Humor as a Coping Mechanism

    31:54 - Parenting Daughters Softly

    32:08 - Common Challenges in Parenting

    33:17 - Self-Awareness and Reflection

    34:43 - Visualizing Conflict and Repair

    35:03 - The Importance of Repair

    36:01 - Handling Discomfort in Parenting

    36:59 - Listening vs. Fixing

    38:00 - Asking for Understanding

    39:16 - Girls and Emotional Expression

    40:18 - Creating Open Conversations

    41:01 - Body Awareness and Emotional Regulation

    42:35 - Using Self as a Reference Point

    43:49 - The Power of Connection

    44:34 - Normalizing Male Emotions

    45:14 - Emotional Sovereignty

    46:30 - Shame and Emotional Disconnect

    47:07 - Finding Ian's Course

    48:37 - Shared Experiences in Parenting Classes

    49:27 - Learning and Empowerment

    50:00 - Managing Children's Emotional Outbursts

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    52 mins
  • 102. Creating Safe Spaces: Unlocking Human Potential
    Dec 8 2024

    In this episode of The AnxietyRX Podcast, I’m joined by Dr. Nick Holton and Dr. Adam Wright as we explore the powerful connection between trauma, resilience, and well-being.

    I dive into why I believe the traditional medical focus on medication isn't enough and why a holistic approach, including spiritual healing, is so important.

    Dr. Holton shares his thoughts on how having a clear sense of purpose and value-based goals can help us unlock our full potential.

    Dr. Wright offers insights from sports psychology, explaining how controlled exposure to stress is key to building resilience.

    We wrap up by discussing the concept of "anti-fragility" — how, with the right support, we can actually thrive through adversity.

    Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions.

    PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 4000+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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    00:00 - Introduction

    00:31 - Dr. Nick Holton's Background

    01:53 - Dr. Adam Wright's Experience

    03:08 - Disenchantment with Systems

    04:32 - Importance of Purpose

    05:09 - Concept of Anti-Fragility

    07:31 - Proactive Resilience Building

    09:10 - Childhood Trauma and Resilience

    10:14 - Defining Anti-Fragility

    12:42 - Cultural Influence on Resilience

    13:55 - Trauma's Impact on High Achievers

    14:38 - Talent and Trauma Correlation

    18:27 - Trauma and Cellular Memory

    19:06 - Understanding Trauma and Sensitivity

    20:01 - Expanding Capacity and Resilience

    21:15 - Cortisol Response and Inherited Trauma

    22:15 - Reframing Trauma Perspectives

    24:44 - The Importance of Safety in Healing

    25:17 - Neurogenesis and Safety

    27:37 - Applying Skills to Real-Life Challenges

    28:30 - Navigating Stress Responses

    31:02 - Health Management vs. Sick Management

    32:12 - Client Goals and Progression

    34:04 - Case Studies in Performance Improvement

    37:44 - Defining Mental Health

    38:18 - The Reward of Worry

    40:10 - Defining Mental Wellness

    42:01 - The Role of Joy

    44:13 - Contrast in Life

    45:06 - Tolerating Negative Feelings

    48:27 - Creating a New Narrative

    50:19 - Optimizing Performance

    51:12 - Finding Resources

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    54 mins
  • 101. Laughing Through the Chaos: How Faith, Humor, and Psychedelics Shape Our Journeys with Anxiety
    Dec 2 2024

    Today I sit down with comedian Damonde Tschritter to chat about our personal experiences with anxiety, alcohol, and psychedelics.

    We share some funny and heartfelt stories from our stand-up comedy careers, including one wild tale where Damonde performed with severe alcohol poisoning—talk about pushing through!

    We also dive into the world of psychedelics, with Damonde opening up about his life-changing experience with ayahuasca, while I talk about the more challenging side of my own journey.

    Along the way, we discuss the power of faith, grounding techniques, and how a shift in perspective can make all the difference when it comes to managing anxiety and facing the uncertainty life throws our way.

    Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions.

    PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 4000+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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    TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 - Introduction

    02:40 - Alcohol Poisoning Story

    03:09 - Medical Intervention

    04:28 - Unexpected Performance

    05:25 - Adrenaline and Performance

    07:23 - Sobriety and Stand-Up

    09:14 - Panic Attacks Experience

    11:32 - Comparison of Professions

    15:33 - The Art of Timing in Comedy

    18:49 - Life-Altering Health Scare

    20:27 - Impact of Near-Death Experience

    23:04 - Ayahuasca Experience Discussion

    24:18 - Transformation After Ayahuasca

    25:10 - Spiritual Insights from Ayahuasca

    28:10 - Change in Alcohol Consumption

    29:26 - Varied Experiences with Ayahuasca

    31:06 - Neuroscience of Psychedelics

    32:16 - Psychedelics and Experience

    33:36 - Control and Anxiety

    34:38 - Perception of Time

    35:17 - Facing Fears Through Purging

    36:26 - Imagery and Messages

    37:38 - The Encounter with an Entity

    39:09 - The Messenger Show

    40:16 - Messages to Share

    42:43 - Connecting Through Shared Experiences

    44:44 - Spiritual Component in Medicine

    46:43 - Microdosing as an Introduction

    50:35 - Personal Reflections on Ayahuasca

    51:30 - The Concept of Greater Existence

    52:44 - Perception Limitations

    54:25 - Facing Fears

    59:51 - The Reward Beyond Fear

    01:00:46 - Morning Rituals and Calmness

    01:02:33 - The Importance of Faith

    01:04:27 - Reflections on Adversity

    01:06:14 - Faith in the Journey

    01:06:29 - Daily Mantra

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • 100. Sipping from Your Own Cup: The Essential Role of Self-Care in Healing Anxiety
    Nov 24 2024

    In today's episode, I sit down with Dr. Nicole Cain, a therapist and author of Panic Proof. We dive into a heartfelt conversation about the roots of anxiety, especially how childhood experiences shape what we feel as adults.

    Dr. Cain opens up about her own journey with anxiety and shares valuable insights from her work, including why it's so important to address the deeper issues behind our anxiety—not just the symptoms.

    We talk a lot about the power of self-care, reconnecting with your inner child, and taking a more holistic approach to healing.

    If you're looking for lasting relief, this episode will encourage you to face your emotions and start the healing process.

    Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions.

    PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 4000+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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    00:00 - Introduction

    01:17 - The Role of the Oldest Child

    02:55 - Core Memory of Anxiety

    03:56 - Understanding Family Dynamics

    04:20 - The Impact of Anxiety

    05:53 - Adaptive Mechanisms in Anxiety

    07:07 - Fragmentation of Self

    09:23 - Fractured Identity and Anxiety

    12:59 - Mind-Body Connection

    14:15 - Writing "Panic Proof"

    18:40 - The Journey to Recovery

    19:38 - Unresolved Grief and Anxiety

    20:58 - Connecting with the Inner Child

    22:01 - Processing Mechanisms in Healing

    23:46 - Using Photographs for Emotional Evocation

    24:43 - The Role of Psychedelics in Healing

    26:25 - Addiction as a Temporary Connection Tool

    29:05 - Understanding Panic Attacks

    30:56 - The Role of Awareness in Anxiety

    33:21 - Survival Mode and Rational Thinking

    37:26 - The Therapeutic Order in Naturopathy

    39:35 - Addressing Obstacles to Cure

    42:25 - The Limits of Conventional Medicine

    43:47 - Discussion on Medication vs. Root Cause

    45:12 - Case Study of Panic Colitis

    48:22 - The Alarm Anxiety Cycle

    51:31 - Inner Child Work and Healing

    55:25 - Personal Agency as an Antidote to Anxiety

    56:49 - Reflection on Fear of Flying

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    1 hr and 1 min
  • The Power of Presence: Bridging Science and Spirituality for a Holistic Approach
    Nov 17 2024

    Today we’re diving into a fascinating conversation with Debra Doerksen, a spiritual medium and author.

    In this episode, we explore the powerful intersection of anxiety, spirituality, and healing. Debra will bring her wisdom on the energetic side of our existence, showing how spirituality can be a key piece in managing anxiety.

    Together, we’ll talk about the importance of a holistic approach to healing—one that brings together the mind, body, and spirit—and the critical roles of curiosity, connection, and community in navigating anxiety.

    It’s an open, honest, and deeply insightful conversation you won’t want to miss!

    Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions.

    PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 4000+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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    TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 - Introduction

    01:05 - Spiritual Connection in Healing

    01:30 - Rigid Nature of Medicine

    02:47 - Merging Science and Spirituality

    04:12 - Childhood Trauma and Anxiety

    05:32 - Energetic Nature of Existence

    06:36 - Anxiety and Spiritual Awareness

    07:27 - Misunderstanding Anxiety Symptoms

    08:25 - Energy Exchange in Relationships

    09:09 - Societal Views on Anxiety

    10:54 - Skepticism and Spirituality

    12:00- Crisis and Energetic Awareness

    15:24 - Anxiety Symptoms and Energy

    16:19 - Mind as a Servant

    17:37 - Healing and Sensitivity

    18:31 - Therapeutic Tools for Healing

    19:27 - Spiritual Beings Having a Human Experience

    20:21 - Experiencing Detachment

    21:21 - Understanding Anxiety

    23:16 - Objecting Without Contracting

    24:04 - Connecting to the Body

    25:00 - Navigating Sensitivity

    26:02 - Curiosity Over Fear

    28:01 - Trauma and the Body

    30:41 - Acknowledging Pain

    32:26 - Energy and Spirit Connection

    33:43 - The Role of Faith

    38:13 - Healing Through Mediumship

    40:09 - Skepticism and Openness

    42:15 - The Importance of Connection in Healing

    44:10 - Medical Training vs. Spirituality

    45:07 - The Complexity of Healing

    46:27 - Intergenerational Trauma and Healing

    49:08 - Anxiety and Grief Connection

    51:53 - The Role of Thoughts in Anxiety

    53:12 - Separation and Anxiety

    55:12 - Body Awareness in Trauma

    57:40 - Mind-Body Connection

    58:51 - Recognizing Unproductive Thoughts

    59:50 - Trauma and Energy

    01:00:20 - Breath and Color as Connection

    01:01:40 - Sensation Without Explanation

    01:03:14 - Writing and Vulnerability

    01:04:12 - Eternal Connection

    01:05:00 - Skepticism and Growth

    01:06:39 - Practical Spirituality

    01:07:35 - Community and Sharing

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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • Dancing with Discomfort: The Surprising Benefits of Play in Healing Trauma
    Nov 10 2024

    Hey there, welcome back to The AnxietyRX Podcast! I’m Dr. Russ, and today I’ve got a special guest, Chelsea Horton, who’s an amazing expert in body-based therapy. We’re going to chat about something really important: the connection between anxiety, trauma, and creative expression.

    We often think of therapy as just sitting and talking, but Chelsea and I explore why that’s not always enough.

    We’ll dig into how movement and play can really help us work through trauma. Chelsea also shares why hands-on learning is so crucial in therapy.

    We talk about the need to reconnect with our bodies, create a safe space, and empower ourselves in the healing process. It’s all about taking a holistic approach—mixing mind, body, and creativity for deal healing.

    So, grab a comfy seat and join us for this enlightening conversation!

    Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions.

    PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 4000+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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    TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 - Introduction

    03:16 - Chelsea's Background

    04:32 - Experiencing Trauma

    05:03 - Movement and Trauma Processing

    06:29 - Play and Safety in Healing

    08:46 - Choice and Agency in Healing

    10:05 - Evolving from Childhood Trauma

    11:55 - Overcoming Inertia

    14:47 - The Alarm-Anxiety Cycle

    16:38 - Building Trust with the Inner Child

    18:43 - Neuroscience of Trauma

    19:10 - Understanding Body Connection

    20:16 - Mind-Body Disconnect

    21:23 - The Role of Neuroscience

    22:30 - Living in the Moment

    23:17 - Grounding Techniques

    24:18 - Familiarity and Security

    27:06 - Healing Through Discomfort

    28:45 - Coping Mechanisms and Anxiety

    29:47 - Understanding the Body's Role

    30:31 - Creating Expression Through Movement

    32:07 - Rewiring Emotional Pathways

    34:08 - Science vs. Healing

    35:02 - Embodiment and Creativity

    37:41 - Connecting with the Inner Child

    41:01 - Relational Patterns in Trauma

    43:59 - Concerns About Trauma Practices

    45:17 - The Limitations of Academic Training

    46:15 - Importance of Repetition in Healing

    47:02 - Criticism of the Term 'Empath'

    47:58 - Cognitive vs. Experiential Healing

    48:04 - Skills-Based Approach in Somatic Practice

    49:10 - Concerns About Rapid Trauma Transformation

    50:05 - The Long Process of Unlearning

    51:50 - Importance of a Year-Long Program

    56:19 - The Role of Community in Healing

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    59 mins
  • Why Avoiding Your Feelings is Like Trying to Hide a Hippo in a Phone Booth
    Nov 3 2024

    In this episode of the AnxietyRX Podcast, I chat with Terry Baranski, an Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist, about some fresh, non-traditional ways to tackle anxiety.

    Terry shares his interesting path from computer science to therapy, stressing how crucial it is to understand trauma and the mind-body connection. We also take a closer look at why some traditional therapies miss the mark and explore how IFS and compassionate inquiry can lead to real healing and self-compassion.

    Join us for an insightful conversation that might just change your perspective on anxiety!

    Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions.

    PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 4000+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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    00:00 - Introduction

    01:44 - Terry Baranski's Background

    03:04 - Critique of Traditional Therapy

    04:37 - IFS Therapy Overview

    05:48 - The Importance of Curiosity in Therapy

    07:30 - Analogy of Itching and Scratching

    09:45 - Managing vs. Healing Anxiety

    11:24 - Mind-Body Connection

    12:29 - Critique of Somatic Approaches

    13:22 - Integration of Mind and Body in Therapy

    16:17 - Overview of IFS Parts

    18:04 - Self-Compassion in IFS

    19:56 - Trauma and Energy Disruption

    22:06 - Conflict Among Parts

    23:01 - Self-Blame in Childhood Trauma

    25:43 - Repetition Compulsion

    26:44 - Anger as a Defense Mechanism

    27:46 - Negative Self-Perception

    28:09 - Dissociation and Coping Strategies

    29:29 - The Role of Self in Healing

    31:03 - Childhood Trauma and the Amygdala

    32:29 - Connecting Body and Mind

    33:20 - Age Regression in Emotional Reactions

    36:06 - Recognizing Triggers as Guidepost

    37:10 - Healthy Expression of Anger

    38:48 - Understanding Trauma and Healing

    39:55 - Building Trust with the Self

    41:35 - Child Development and Trust

    42:04 - The Impact of Trauma on Trust

    43:45 - Ego Dragon and Panic Attacks

    44:56 - Rapid Trust Development in Therapy

    45:29 - Personal Journey of Confidence

    46:26 - Sensitivity and Trauma

    47:13 - Healing from the Bottom Up

    48:07 - Self-Compassion and Trauma

    48:58 - Clearing Trauma for Emotional Freedom

    50:07 - Coping Strategies vs. Healing

    51:24 - Gradual Exposure to Emotional Pain

    52:55 - The Midlife Crisis and Healing

    53:22 - Cold Plunge Analogy

    54:36 - Building Resilience Through Discomfort

    56:09 - Preference for Healing Over Discomfort

    57:21 - Empowerment through Facing Pain

    58:49 - A Different Path in Therapy

    59:37 - Finding Terry Online

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    1 hr and 1 min
  • Uncorking the Truth: How Alcohol Masks Anxiety and What to Do About It
    Oct 27 2024

    Hey there, it's Dr. Russ. In this episode of The AnxietyRX Podcast, I sit down with the amazing Colleen Kachman. Colleen is a real-life superhero helping women conquer their pasts and build brighter futures.

    She opens up about her own struggles with anxiety and how she used alcohol as a crutch to cope. We talk about how booze might seem like a quick fix for anxiety, but it actually makes things worse in the long run and how it can leave you feeling lost and disconnected.

    But don't worry, Colleen shares her wisdom on mindful drinking and the power of self-awareness.

    Join us as we explore the tricky relationship between anxiety, alcohol, and self-connection.

    Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions.

    PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 4000+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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    00:00 - Introduction

    02:01 - Realization of Underlying Issues

    02:50 - Connection Between Chaos and Anxiety

    04:06 - Self-Perception and External Validation

    05:11 - Understanding Alcohol's Role

    12:18 - The Biphasic Nature of Alcohol

    17:01 - The Challenge of Overcoming Urges

    19:01 - Current Perspectives on Alcohol Consumption

    20:17 - The Risks of Alcohol

    21:41 - Humor in Alcohol Discussion

    22:12 - Understanding Emesis

    23:31 - Emotional Resilience and Mental Health

    24:36 - Managing Anxiety and Trauma

    25:27 - Connection with Self

    26:35 - Facing the Alarm

    28:27 - Cold Plunges as Metaphor

    29:39 - Avoiding Alcohol as a Coping Mechanism

    33:24 - Mindful Drinking Practices

    36:22 - Challenging Traditional Views on Alcoholism

    38:45 - The Role of Trauma in Alcohol Use

    39:27 - Understanding Self-Referential Thought

    40:28 - Feeling Your Way Out of Addiction

    41:57 - Grounding in the Body

    42:33 - Cognitive Strategies Post-Grounding

    43:12 - Recognizing Cravings as Notifications

    44:20 - Thoughts vs. Bodily Sensations

    45:17 - The Power of Breathwork

    46:33 - Sensation Without Explanation

    47:30 - Staying with Uncomfortable Sensations

    49:02 - Creating a Safe Space in the Body

    51:36 - Connecting with the Younger Self

    53:04 - Healing at a Feeling Level

    55:57 - Misconceptions About Drinking Problems

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    1 hr