
South of Forgiveness
A True Story of Rape and Responsibility
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Narrated by:
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Tom Bromhead
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Tavia Gilbert
About this listen
One ordinary spring morning in Reykjavik, Iceland, Thordis Elva kisses her son and partner good-bye before boarding a plane to do a remarkable thing: fly 7,000 miles to South Africa to confront the man who raped her when she was just 16. Meanwhile, in Sydney, Australia, Tom Stranger nervously embarks on an equally life-changing journey to meet Thordis, wondering whether he is worthy of this milestone.
After exchanging hundreds of searingly honest emails over eight years, Thordis and Tom decided it was time to speak face to face. Coming from opposite sides of the globe, they meet in the middle, in Cape Town, South Africa, a country that is no stranger to violence and the healing power of forgiveness.
South of Forgiveness is an unprecedented collaboration between a survivor and a perpetrator, each equally committed to exploring the darkest moment of their lives. It is a true story about being bent but not broken, facing fear with courage, and finding hope even in the most wounded of places. Personable, accessible, and compelling, South of Forgiveness is an intense and refreshing look at gendered violence, rape culture, personal responsibility, and the effect that patriarchal cultures have on both men and women.
Contains mature themes.
©2017 Thordis Elva and Tom Stranger (P)2017 TantorCritic reviews
The narrators are both good, but I really didn't like the voice of Tom by the female narrator. In the beginning, I almost stopped listening because of the weird voice and accent, but I'm glad that I didn't. After a while, I almost got used to it.
Very moving and inspiring
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it appears to be a self-help book for survivors
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In my opinion, there is nothing new or insightful about Thordis her perspective. The only thing that’s special about this book is the fact that Tom, reflects on what he has done. This is such an uncommon thing that this book feels totally unrelatable and far from the “accessible” story they describe it as.
Not relatable
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Essential Reading
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The book itself is a brave and unique story on both sides. I’ve never read or heard of a woman wanting to reunite with their rapist and considering forgiving them. Or a man willing to admit to their wrong doing in the hope of forgiveness. The themes covered are shame, forgiveness, redemption and healing. I would recommend buying the book. Do not under any circumstances listen to this. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED.
Buy the book instead!
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Awful accents
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Narrator ruined this for me
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