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Matrescence

On the Metamorphosis of Pregnancy, Childbirth and Motherhood

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Matrescence

By: Lucy Jones
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During pregnancy, childbirth, and early motherhood, women undergo a far-reaching physiological, psychological and social metamorphosis.

There is no other time in a human's life course that entails such dramatic change - other than adolescence. And yet this life-altering transition has been sorely neglected by science, medicine and philosophy. Its seismic effects go largely unrepresented across literature and the arts. Speaking about motherhood as anything other than a pastel-hued dream remains, for the most part, taboo.

In this ground-breaking, deeply personal investigation, acclaimed journalist and author Lucy Jones brings to light the emerging concept of 'matrescence'. Drawing on new research across various fields - neuroscience and evolutionary biology; psychoanalysis and existential therapy; sociology, economics and ecology - Jones shows how the changes in the maternal mind, brain and body are far more profound, wild and enduring than we have been led to believe. She reveals the dangerous consequences of our neglect of the maternal experience and interrogates the patriarchal and capitalist systems that have created the untenable situation mothers face today.

Here is an urgent examination of the modern institution of motherhood, which seeks to unshackle all parents from oppressive social norms. As it deepens our understanding of matrescence, it raises vital questions about motherhood and femininity; interdependence and individual identity; as well as about our relationships with each other and the living world.

©2023 Lucy Jones (P)2023 Penguin Audio
Gender Studies Motherhood Parenting & Families Relationships Sexual & Reproductive Health Social Sciences Sexual Health Inspiring Pregnancy Thought-Provoking

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Critic reviews

Matrescence took me on a journey of reminescence through my own pregnancies and early years of motherhood, eliciting wry recognition, surprise at new evidence and insight, and gratitude for a work that really sees what it is to mother (Clare Chambers)
A beautiful contemplation of the extraordinary yet ordinary metamorphosis that adult humans undergo as they become mothers ... I was entranced ... Matrescence is a passionate and powerful maternal roar for change (Gaia Vince)
Hypnotic, fascinating and long overdue. I am so glad it exists. A gift of a book and told beautifully. (Laura Dockrill)
All stars
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Listened to this audiobook while caring for my 4-month-old daughter, on long walks round pavements and parks. It was like someone turning a light on in a dark room. Incredible. Perceptive. Radical. Moving. Comforting. Enlivening. Astounding.

Astoundingly good

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I have a one year old baby and this book has had such an incredible impact on my thinking around my pregnancy, the birth and the baby and myself now. I couldn't recommend this enough for mothers or fathers. I have learned so much and listened to it in the dark and lonely nights while feeding my baby, feeling so validated and understanding myself and my baby so much more. I couldn't recommend any more, I feel almost a relief and listening to it was a journey, thank you for this book and helping me with some of my guilt, worry and fears around being a mum.

An incredible book- please please read it!!

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I listened to this a year after having my first baby whilst being pregnant with my second. I wish I had listened whilst pregnant with my first, as it would have offered me much greater insight and confidence that the total transformation that I was experiencing was normal and universal, and that I would survive it! The experience of listening was like a hug from a good friend, so reassuring and quite addictive. I devoured the book in a few days. Whilst I was fortunate that my own experience was less isolated than Lucy's since I had more family support closer to hand, and was able to move to a country where childcare is more affordable and accessible, it is essential to understand the experience of mothers who do the lions share of childcare. The days when I am at home caring for my child are harder work than the days I am able to do my career job, a common misconception which this book shines a bright light on.
Personally, I was less engaged with the scientific metaphors from the animal kingdom, but it didn't take anything away from the overall listening experience. I will listen to it a second time after the birth of my second. Thank you for this book, Lucy! If only this was compulsory reading for the whole of society...

A gift for mothers! I felt seen and understood.

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I have never read something so important, so interesting, so deep. I loved the parallels with the nature, I loved how the author described feelings…I was crying multiple times throughout the book, because it touches the deepest feelings, and I was also laughing out loud multiple times too. Must read. I feel blessed that this book has been written, I think it will change the world - I certainly feel inspired to fight for mothers and for the change for the better, for our children and ourselves. I have listened to the audio version and will go on and buy the book too, I want to frame every sentence from this book in my home.

The best book of my life

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Thankyou for writing this, I hope it brings about the changes that are so desperately needed so that mothers in the future find the experience less traumatic, disorienting and outrageously unfair.

Articulates everything I haven’t been able to explain

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Incredibly well written and researched book woven around the author’s personal experience. Everyone should read this!

Important

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Amazing book for every woman to read! I got so much information about childbirth and child rearing that nobody tells us!

Amazing and so much information!

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This is an incredible listen - I was riveted throughout and congratulate Lucy on her brilliant narration of this amazing book.

Amazing!

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I will never forget reading (and re-reading) an essay by Lucy Jones for somesuch stories a few years ago. Is my experience of motherhood so spookily close to Lucy’s or are these feelings among us all? Either way, that essay and this book have helped me immensely with understanding the last 8/9 years of my life. Can’t wait to read more, thank you Lucy!

Essential

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The level of science in this is a bit alienating to many, I'm sure, but it's also odd that the author pronounces many of the scientific words incorrectly!

a book thst needed to be written

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